Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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darkjedi

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Let's start with how I proceed with phone calls so my post makes sense. I usually go out on Sat nights and meet women. If I number close I will only call them 2 times to setup a date (Mon and Wed) or next them if I have not received a call back. If there was really good rapport and I feel like playing the game, I will call only one more time and that will be the following Mon.

So, I went to a club last Sat and met some women there. I was able to build
rapport with them and easily number close. I then waited till Monday and called them all up hoping to plan a Starbucks date with each of them. Out of the 4 numbers I called 1 picked up and setup a date with me (for tonight) and the other 3 I left Voicemail messages.

Yesterday, 2 out of the other 3 called me back and we setup dates to meet for coffee. Today I called the other one to give her one last chance at a date (She was not worth a following Monday call) I was a little surprised at what happened next.

Shortly after I receive a text message that says the following:
"Hi i do not remember u. please stop calling me. thx"

Wow... I'm not really worried about it and honestly it's kind of funny to me. This woman was not only all over me dancing with me, but bought me a drink at the bar and she "GAVE" me her number. I'm sure if she came by my place I could help her jog her memory :crackup:

Has this happened to anyone before? I'd love to hear that I'm not the only one this has happened to.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Bvbidd

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Don't leave voice messages EVER!

The girl was probally too drunk too remember or realized she had a creepy message on her phone and got freaked out.
 
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The rude girl was probably pretty drunk when you met her. Nice job on getting 2 out of 3 callbacks. 3 dates off of 4 numbers is great.
 
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Bvbidd said:
Don't leave voice messages EVER!

The girl was probally too drunk too remember or realized she had a creepy message on her phone and got freaked out.
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Possibly as she did have some drinks, but I've never had this problem up till now as far as leaving a voicemail.

I always here mixed ideas about leaving a voicemail as some say don't and others say always. I usually do it because these days with caller id, many people will not return phone calls from numbers they do not know and since I don't give out my number...
 
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Maxtro said:
The rude girl was probably pretty drunk when you met her. Nice job on getting 2 out of 3 callbacks. 3 dates off of 4 numbers is great.
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I don't feel bad about it. It's good to have other plates spinning. :up:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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PectoralisMajor

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Good work on playing the numbers game my man.

If someone does not pickup I ALWAYS leave a voicemail and 99% of the time they call back as soon as they are availabe.

As for this girl who doesnt remember - send her a text back saying

'stop stalking me already'
 
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why are you setting up day dates all the time on starbucks?
 
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Ostepop said:
why are you setting up day dates all the time on starbucks?
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Aye - starbucks is pricey. Why not go for a 40p coffee from Mcdonalds ha.
 
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