"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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So I email this acquaintance/work friend about trying out a new restaurant. She writes back that she would like to go with me and asks when I was thinking of going. I write back on Wed morning that I would like to go the next Tuesday. I don't hear back from her for like 2 days. Now, I am emailing her work addy so she should be seeing it immediately (as I know she is at work since my boy sees her daily at work).

So on Friday morning I write back and asks if she would like to go. She writes back in like 1 minute and says that she is busy on Tuesday, that she thought she wrote back already and that she is very sorry. She also suggests that we might try the next week. So I write back again, this time suggesting the following Monday (which is like 9 days from that Friday).

I wrote back last Friday and have yet to hear back as of Monday night. What gives? Should I just give up?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Rex Man

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ok, why are you scheduling stuff so far in advance? That's prob #1
 
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Cause she told me that she is busy for the rest of the week and suggested the following week. I guess I should have waited till like Wed and then asked her?
 
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Low Interest!!!






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mrblue said:
Cause she told me that she is busy for the rest of the week and suggested the following week. I guess I should have waited till like Wed and then asked her?
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Ask 10 more girls... So if this one gives you wouldn't care.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Why are you going to a restaurant in the morning? is it an IHOP?
 
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