"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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So I email this acquaintance/work friend about trying out a new restaurant. She writes back that she would like to go with me and asks when I was thinking of going. I write back on Wed morning that I would like to go the next Tuesday. I don't hear back from her for like 2 days. Now, I am emailing her work addy so she should be seeing it immediately (as I know she is at work since my boy sees her daily at work).

So on Friday morning I write back and asks if she would like to go. She writes back in like 1 minute and says that she is busy on Tuesday, that she thought she wrote back already and that she is very sorry. She also suggests that we might try the next week. So I write back again, this time suggesting the following Monday (which is like 9 days from that Friday).

I wrote back last Friday and have yet to hear back as of Monday night. What gives? Should I just give up?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Rex Man

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ok, why are you scheduling stuff so far in advance? That's prob #1
 
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Cause she told me that she is busy for the rest of the week and suggested the following week. I guess I should have waited till like Wed and then asked her?
 
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Low Interest!!!






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mrblue said:
Cause she told me that she is busy for the rest of the week and suggested the following week. I guess I should have waited till like Wed and then asked her?
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Ask 10 more girls... So if this one gives you wouldn't care.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Why are you going to a restaurant in the morning? is it an IHOP?
 
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