"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Has this ever happened to you?

zzirf25

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Ok, here is how it goes you are talking to this wonderful girl, you don't think she can be anymore perfect. She is also very into you and things are going very well. well something happens and you somehow end up loosing contact. So you just let it go and move on. Later on down the road, like 2 or 3 years later you run into her again and there is still some attraction on both parts but neither one of you pursue simply because you have your own seperate lives, but you are still friends. Well here is where it gets interesting. You find out from a neutral party that a little after you and her lost contact the first time that she became a huge slvt. You really have no intentions on ever pursuing her ever again but deep inside it hurts you knowing that the person who you know before had changed that much and you just do not approve of it at all. I'm not saying that you try to involve yourself in her life ever again, but im just saying that it hurts you to know that the sweet girl no longer exists. How many of you guys have ever had something like this happen.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Junior Sanz

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i have lost a great deal of friends due to cocaine addictions, violence, crime etc.....

while all this was going on in front of my face i came to realize that this way of life isnt for me and i needed to make a change...

i got the hell out of that group of friends and began doing something with my life... college, career, volunteerism, etc.

i knew if i continued to chill with these people i would be them one day.....dead or in jail.


NOT WORTH IT! i look back now and say im glad i made a decision to move ahead and take action with my life towards a positive direction.
 

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what does that^^^^^^ have to do with this thread??



Yap, many times, it's called disapoitment. :(
 

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Yeah i know what u mean....

like all my High shcool girlz have become like the biggest sluts in town.... theyr doing threesomes with two guys and to guys more watching giving bj in the bathroom in the shcool while thre guys are filming with the mobile camera... theyr like different people than before... but thats what happens people change.... even yourself changes nothing to do but move on...
 

Junior Sanz

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spider are you referring to me?

you answered WHAT it had to do with this thread.


dissappointment = making a change and not looking back!

so what if the chic turned into a slvt? that was her decision just like it my friends decisions to stick that crap up their noses and get involved with crime.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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