"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Has there ever been, or will there ever be, a DJ/SS meet up of members?
- Thread starter TonyBaloney
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
sageproduct
Banned
Purefilth
Master Don Juan
Naughty Ninja
Banned
Purefilth said:
I wouldn't show and I'm ten minutes from NYC. I can just picture the "gathering" looking like an Anime freak show.
To the poster who mentioned Comic Con. Reminds me of a conversation I had with a friend who owns a restaurant near the Jacob Javits Center. He was telling me about when Comic Con rolls through all the nose bleed lulu birds who come into his place dressed in costume. I almost pissed myself!
Who knows. Maybe I'll spot Purefilth the plane ticket to come dressed as "Capt Alpha" lol.
sageproduct
Banned
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Purefilth
Master Don Juan
ill bring my boxing gloves to gutslug all those white knights I keep hearing you have a problem with over thereNaughty Ninja said:
