"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Has there ever been, or will there ever be, a DJ/SS meet up of members?

TonyBaloney

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So looking at an old video of a `pimps ball` with all of the characters that were present got me thinking if the same thing could ever occure here at SS with all of our characters?

Anyone up for the idea?

I'm from England, and its my 40th this year....already told er indoors that i wanna travel to the good ol USA on my OWN this year - especially to NYC which may be a good plave to host it?

A summertime meet of all grades from the juniors to the endless whining misery guts...let all be represented ;)
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Aspiring1

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If this ever happens, I feel really sorry for whichever girls are in the bar chosen that night. They'll be negged and kinoed into quivering lumps of vodka-infused pudding.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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SeymourCake

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inb4massmurderandsuddendissapearanceofSSmembers
 

GotED?

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If we were ALL to be the same social setting (bar, club, whatever) together,

***DEFINITELY NOTHING WOULD HAPPEN WITH WOMEN***

Because we are all bull sh!tting each other into NC Wonderland or putting a boot up each other's arse for chasing the opposite sex or talking about how sh!tty each other's outfit do not fit or sh!tty haircut that can use gel or tightening up.

We are fooken scary BeverlyHillBillies 90210.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Kbomb

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We would all be revealed to be neckbeard basement dwellers with sloppy facial hair and large guts. It would be amazing.
 

SamTheHobit

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When I move back to the states I plan on organising one of these.

Lol it would be interesting picking up girls with the older guys.
 

PlayHer Man

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That would actually be fun. I agree NYC is a perfect spot (at least for me). Its also a great place to game. I wish I lived there.

In addition, it would be a good networking opportunity for all of us to have wingmen world-wide we can meet/work with when visiting different states/countries.
 

Who Dares Win

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Just make sure you guys get a bilderberger level secrecy plan cause if the wrong person finds out, you'll be having hordes of anabolized overweight feminists coming to "punish" you with the mangina enchmen.

The only one receiving kinos will be your face while smothered from their fat asses and wet hands, no amount of ice cream will be enough to distract them and let some of you escape and ask for help.
 

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I can just picture this song playing in the background.


They're creepy and they're kooky,
mysterious and spooky,
They're all together ooky,
The So Suave Family!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Mike32ct

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Obviously we can't post the location and date and time online. I don't want some commercial pickup g u ru showing up (alone or with his bootcamp students) to give us a "free lecture" ie sales pitch. If I see anybody wearing a furry hat, devils horns, or L E D belt, or hear them forcing a really loud deep "alpha" voice, I'm gonna eject lol.

PM is ok, but not totally secure because it can still be forwarded or leaked.
 

Plutoman

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Met up with two guys already here, I'm always down for meeting new people, but I'm central US without cash lying around to take a trip.
 

TonyBaloney

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Naughty Ninja said:
I can just picture this song playing in the background.


They're creepy and they're kooky,
mysterious and spooky,
They're all together ooky,
The So Suave Family!

LOL HA!!! Believe or not, my sometimes "wing" is a guy who works for me, Richard.

He is a strange fish...on anti psych meds....kinda murmurs to himself alot.....i just got be careful i dont leave knives about ha ;)

Put it this way, a friend Bob, when he met Richard for the first time at, believe it or not, the "london zombie walk" (a group of 1000 plus people who dress up nuts and get drunk on halloween) said to Richard, "fvck man, you look just like Uncle Fester" and you know what, its bloody true, they do look alike!!!!!! the names stuck, thats my sidekick...... LOL ;)
 

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I am going all routine based if I show up....ARRRG CAN'T GET OUT OF a3
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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