"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Has there ever been, or will there ever be, a DJ/SS meet up of members?

TonyBaloney

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So looking at an old video of a `pimps ball` with all of the characters that were present got me thinking if the same thing could ever occure here at SS with all of our characters?

Anyone up for the idea?

I'm from England, and its my 40th this year....already told er indoors that i wanna travel to the good ol USA on my OWN this year - especially to NYC which may be a good plave to host it?

A summertime meet of all grades from the juniors to the endless whining misery guts...let all be represented ;)
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Aspiring1

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If this ever happens, I feel really sorry for whichever girls are in the bar chosen that night. They'll be negged and kinoed into quivering lumps of vodka-infused pudding.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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SeymourCake

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inb4massmurderandsuddendissapearanceofSSmembers
 

GotED?

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If we were ALL to be the same social setting (bar, club, whatever) together,

***DEFINITELY NOTHING WOULD HAPPEN WITH WOMEN***

Because we are all bull sh!tting each other into NC Wonderland or putting a boot up each other's arse for chasing the opposite sex or talking about how sh!tty each other's outfit do not fit or sh!tty haircut that can use gel or tightening up.

We are fooken scary BeverlyHillBillies 90210.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Kbomb

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We would all be revealed to be neckbeard basement dwellers with sloppy facial hair and large guts. It would be amazing.
 

SamTheHobit

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When I move back to the states I plan on organising one of these.

Lol it would be interesting picking up girls with the older guys.
 

PlayHer Man

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That would actually be fun. I agree NYC is a perfect spot (at least for me). Its also a great place to game. I wish I lived there.

In addition, it would be a good networking opportunity for all of us to have wingmen world-wide we can meet/work with when visiting different states/countries.
 

Who Dares Win

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Just make sure you guys get a bilderberger level secrecy plan cause if the wrong person finds out, you'll be having hordes of anabolized overweight feminists coming to "punish" you with the mangina enchmen.

The only one receiving kinos will be your face while smothered from their fat asses and wet hands, no amount of ice cream will be enough to distract them and let some of you escape and ask for help.
 

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I can just picture this song playing in the background.


They're creepy and they're kooky,
mysterious and spooky,
They're all together ooky,
The So Suave Family!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Mike32ct

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Obviously we can't post the location and date and time online. I don't want some commercial pickup g u ru showing up (alone or with his bootcamp students) to give us a "free lecture" ie sales pitch. If I see anybody wearing a furry hat, devils horns, or L E D belt, or hear them forcing a really loud deep "alpha" voice, I'm gonna eject lol.

PM is ok, but not totally secure because it can still be forwarded or leaked.
 

Plutoman

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Met up with two guys already here, I'm always down for meeting new people, but I'm central US without cash lying around to take a trip.
 

TonyBaloney

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Naughty Ninja said:
I can just picture this song playing in the background.


They're creepy and they're kooky,
mysterious and spooky,
They're all together ooky,
The So Suave Family!

LOL HA!!! Believe or not, my sometimes "wing" is a guy who works for me, Richard.

He is a strange fish...on anti psych meds....kinda murmurs to himself alot.....i just got be careful i dont leave knives about ha ;)

Put it this way, a friend Bob, when he met Richard for the first time at, believe it or not, the "london zombie walk" (a group of 1000 plus people who dress up nuts and get drunk on halloween) said to Richard, "fvck man, you look just like Uncle Fester" and you know what, its bloody true, they do look alike!!!!!! the names stuck, thats my sidekick...... LOL ;)
 

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I am going all routine based if I show up....ARRRG CAN'T GET OUT OF a3
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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