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Has the cultural zeitgeist changed so that chicks think that men that have nerdy activities like D&D are attractive?

MatureDJ

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I was watching this, and it got me interested:


I can remember a time when this would lock up a chick's legs - at least chicks that aren't fat, LOL.
 

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Not more attractive per se, but nerds are less threatening.
 

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I don’t even think a Chad could survive a D&D/Magic the gathering reputation.
Yeah. Chad can.
I’m not a Chad, but am a huge gamer nerd. Including RPGs, CCG’s an HBGs.
Hasn’t hurt. Granted girls might find it odd.
But, ultimately, it doesn’t matter.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Never been into D&D but I'm pretty sure the introduction of hot chicks ruined it.
 

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Depends on if youre a nerd with a trust fund. If youre just the typical minimum wage live at home nerd then no, playing D&D will not enhance your love life.
 

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Nerds aren't getting laid as much as guys with fit/muscular physiques who are into weight lifting and possibly being involved in one or more sports.
 

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I was watching this, and it got me interested:

Note there she says D&D happens on "BOYS night". This goes back to a phenomena that's been present for decades
, and has become all-consuming for the past decade
9:00-forward

Our entire culture has been in a state of mass regression, from '16-forward
 

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Depends on if youre a nerd with a trust fund. If youre just the typical minimum wage live at home nerd then no, playing D&D will not enhance your love life.
So a nerd with a Trust fund could get by?
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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So a nerd with a Trust fund could get by?
Bill Gates used money to get a mediocre careerist woman as a wife. It is rumored that he had side pieces.

Mark Zuckerberg had a mediocre college girlfriend. He has had the same girlfriend since before he got rich.

A nerd with mediocre to subpar employment and a rich family can get sex, either through conventional dating or directly paying for it. It depends on how much money he has and what his possessions are. His personality will also be relevant as that man is likely on the autism spectrum.
 

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Give a nerd 5 million dollars, a Lamborghini, a Rolls-Royce Cullinan, a poppin blue-checked IG with 100k followers, and a penthouse suite downtown, any hobby the nerd has is sexy.

No nerd that watches Jeopardy is sexy unless he goes on and wins as much as James Holzhauer.
 

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Take it from someone who still hangs around nerd types. No, it's not attractive. Even nerdy girls still want the chad who doesn't play children stuff. And yes, I know video games isn't considered children stuff to us guys, but you got to understand the girl mindset. You have to have something non nerdy going on.
 
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