Don Corleone
Don Juan
Has this site actually helped you get women? Be Honest.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Has SoSuave.com ACTUALLY helped you get women?
- Thread starter Don Corleone
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
alphawolfx
Senior Don Juan
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No. I learned from other people/lair members. I come back to help by posting my thoughts, advice, and experiences so that others may follow.
DJHoolahoop
Senior Don Juan
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me too, only the thing is I'm only realizing that I had this all in me all along, but went with the other wrong stuff i had been doing, thinking that's the way it was to be done. But now i'm seeing that I DID have it the first time and just needed to go out and DO something.Originally posted by tom121
"No, I now question everything I do. I hate this site" <-- haha so me
My problem wasn't getting them interested, it was what to do about the interest that I didn't know how to do. I'm still working on that and on myself, but until then I'm still gonna be doubting myself and not having as much luck with women as I'd like.
englishcrap
Senior Don Juan
It can be a double edged sword at times. People give differing opinions and the only way of knowing what works for yourself is to go out and try it.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
diablo
Master Don Juan
Which is the part most people have the greatest difficulty with. SoSuave works, if you actually do it. Sitting on a chair 24/7 talking on the internet about how things should work isn't going to land anybody anything.
frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
please bring it back to what is was!
please!
PLEASE!!!!
please!
PLEASE!!!!
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I-am-someone
Senior Don Juan
You know what... I think this site is great... I really do...
But in different ways than a lot of other people on here think. The greatness in this site is in the fact that it gets you thinking about your interaction with women...
The downside to all this is, that it gets you thinking about your interaction with women...
I have decided to stop relying on this board and get my own **** together first. I'm having a good time now, my social skills are way up now, my game is getting way better and I'm getting good at playing all the people I meet. I'm able to talk to a perfect stranger like it's nothing, I'm able to do whatever I want to do and it's suiting me just fine.
You know what, I wish this site taught a little bit more about self-reliance. You need to be able to count on yourself! You are the one that matters. If you need to come to this board to get your sh!t sorted out, you are one pathetic motherfvcker. Honest to god, if you are not able to fix your own fvcking problems when you come to this board, you are not going to get them fixed when you DO come here to ask those questions, because the theory and the experience behind them is in the head of the one giving advice and not in the one recieving it. It's useless to give advice when the person at the other end does not have your mindset...
But in different ways than a lot of other people on here think. The greatness in this site is in the fact that it gets you thinking about your interaction with women...
The downside to all this is, that it gets you thinking about your interaction with women...
I have decided to stop relying on this board and get my own **** together first. I'm having a good time now, my social skills are way up now, my game is getting way better and I'm getting good at playing all the people I meet. I'm able to talk to a perfect stranger like it's nothing, I'm able to do whatever I want to do and it's suiting me just fine.
You know what, I wish this site taught a little bit more about self-reliance. You need to be able to count on yourself! You are the one that matters. If you need to come to this board to get your sh!t sorted out, you are one pathetic motherfvcker. Honest to god, if you are not able to fix your own fvcking problems when you come to this board, you are not going to get them fixed when you DO come here to ask those questions, because the theory and the experience behind them is in the head of the one giving advice and not in the one recieving it. It's useless to give advice when the person at the other end does not have your mindset...
Before I met sosuave I was a total nerd/geek. Now with the help of sosuave and lifting weights for 1 1/2 years, I can successfully steal gazes from most girls. Even girls from my high school comment on my looks. I currently am in a relationship as well, thanks sosuave.com.
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well i may be wrong but for memory it had the feel of a sense of community with guys all moving in the same direction which consisted of bettering yourself and being able to get puzzy easily. None of this grey area sh!t, It was what worked and what didnt, it seems like it went from the black/white what works/what doesnt to the Ohh but if you do it like this grey area. Thankfully masf stays in the black and white.
Dont get me wrong this place helped me take the blindfold off and if it wasnt for the sheer luck of stumbling onto it I probably would still be none the wiser of how to get snatch, and I still love reading through the bible.
or maybe Im just imagining it becuse Ive changed and its exactly like it was back then, maybe?
But anyway I could have sworn none of this type sh!t was apart of the debates back then:
A teenage chick, the absolute finished product of an oprahesque/friends brainwashed society mentality (the sh!t we were actually trying escape from) standing on her soapbox and telling the men how it is and should be?, I could be mistaken again but back then he/she would have been laughed at and told not to interupt again and that would have been that, then back to a community reaching a common goal.
Or maybe it was common back then as it is now and I just missed that part of the disccussion or didnt read the boards that day.
who knows?