Don Corleone
Don Juan
Has this site actually helped you get women? Be Honest.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Has SoSuave.com ACTUALLY helped you get women?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
alphawolfx
Senior Don Juan
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No. I learned from other people/lair members. I come back to help by posting my thoughts, advice, and experiences so that others may follow.
DJHoolahoop
Senior Don Juan
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me too, only the thing is I'm only realizing that I had this all in me all along, but went with the other wrong stuff i had been doing, thinking that's the way it was to be done. But now i'm seeing that I DID have it the first time and just needed to go out and DO something.Originally posted by tom121
"No, I now question everything I do. I hate this site" <-- haha so me
My problem wasn't getting them interested, it was what to do about the interest that I didn't know how to do. I'm still working on that and on myself, but until then I'm still gonna be doubting myself and not having as much luck with women as I'd like.
englishcrap
Senior Don Juan
It can be a double edged sword at times. People give differing opinions and the only way of knowing what works for yourself is to go out and try it.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
diablo
Master Don Juan
Which is the part most people have the greatest difficulty with. SoSuave works, if you actually do it. Sitting on a chair 24/7 talking on the internet about how things should work isn't going to land anybody anything.
frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
please bring it back to what is was!
please!
PLEASE!!!!
please!
PLEASE!!!!
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I-am-someone
Senior Don Juan
You know what... I think this site is great... I really do...
But in different ways than a lot of other people on here think. The greatness in this site is in the fact that it gets you thinking about your interaction with women...
The downside to all this is, that it gets you thinking about your interaction with women...
I have decided to stop relying on this board and get my own **** together first. I'm having a good time now, my social skills are way up now, my game is getting way better and I'm getting good at playing all the people I meet. I'm able to talk to a perfect stranger like it's nothing, I'm able to do whatever I want to do and it's suiting me just fine.
You know what, I wish this site taught a little bit more about self-reliance. You need to be able to count on yourself! You are the one that matters. If you need to come to this board to get your sh!t sorted out, you are one pathetic motherfvcker. Honest to god, if you are not able to fix your own fvcking problems when you come to this board, you are not going to get them fixed when you DO come here to ask those questions, because the theory and the experience behind them is in the head of the one giving advice and not in the one recieving it. It's useless to give advice when the person at the other end does not have your mindset...
But in different ways than a lot of other people on here think. The greatness in this site is in the fact that it gets you thinking about your interaction with women...
The downside to all this is, that it gets you thinking about your interaction with women...
I have decided to stop relying on this board and get my own **** together first. I'm having a good time now, my social skills are way up now, my game is getting way better and I'm getting good at playing all the people I meet. I'm able to talk to a perfect stranger like it's nothing, I'm able to do whatever I want to do and it's suiting me just fine.
You know what, I wish this site taught a little bit more about self-reliance. You need to be able to count on yourself! You are the one that matters. If you need to come to this board to get your sh!t sorted out, you are one pathetic motherfvcker. Honest to god, if you are not able to fix your own fvcking problems when you come to this board, you are not going to get them fixed when you DO come here to ask those questions, because the theory and the experience behind them is in the head of the one giving advice and not in the one recieving it. It's useless to give advice when the person at the other end does not have your mindset...
Before I met sosuave I was a total nerd/geek. Now with the help of sosuave and lifting weights for 1 1/2 years, I can successfully steal gazes from most girls. Even girls from my high school comment on my looks. I currently am in a relationship as well, thanks sosuave.com.
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well i may be wrong but for memory it had the feel of a sense of community with guys all moving in the same direction which consisted of bettering yourself and being able to get puzzy easily. None of this grey area sh!t, It was what worked and what didnt, it seems like it went from the black/white what works/what doesnt to the Ohh but if you do it like this grey area. Thankfully masf stays in the black and white.
Dont get me wrong this place helped me take the blindfold off and if it wasnt for the sheer luck of stumbling onto it I probably would still be none the wiser of how to get snatch, and I still love reading through the bible.
or maybe Im just imagining it becuse Ive changed and its exactly like it was back then, maybe?
But anyway I could have sworn none of this type sh!t was apart of the debates back then:
A teenage chick, the absolute finished product of an oprahesque/friends brainwashed society mentality (the sh!t we were actually trying escape from) standing on her soapbox and telling the men how it is and should be?, I could be mistaken again but back then he/she would have been laughed at and told not to interupt again and that would have been that, then back to a community reaching a common goal.
Or maybe it was common back then as it is now and I just missed that part of the disccussion or didnt read the boards that day.
who knows?