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Has Myspace Worked For Anyone?

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I have yet to achieve success with a girl on myspace. The most I get is some casual convo. No dates, nothing!!! For three years, I have tried to use myspace to get women. I at least got one date with craigslist. I'm not ugly either. Can someone who has been successful please give me some pointers because I clearly don't know what the heck I'm doing. And yes, I do try to talk to girls in person but myspace is convenient.

P.S. I've seen some new cuties on there but I thought I'd come here before trying to message them.
 

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I've met a total of 3 girls from MySpace. My first account was way before anyone even knew what the site was. It was more or less for music. I could search my whole zip code and I'd be lucky if I got 100 profiles. Now it's 3,000+.

I'll call the girls A, B, and C.

I met A while out with a friend of mine. She attended the same college as him and was in a few of his classes. Of course when she saw his MySpace, she saw mine and we began to chat over AIM. One night I ended up going over to her place. Long story short, I left that morning. :cheer:

I met B strictly through MySpace. She was busting balls about my profile, so I busted balls right back. Eventually we started talking over AIM, and about a week later she said she's always in my area with her girlfriends. Sure enough we met up, and I went back to her dorm (about an hour away). We made out, she gave me head, but we didn't ****. In the morning she took me home, we still talked on AIM for about a week after then it all stopped. :down:

Girl C ended up becoming my girlfriend for about 6 months. I busted her balls, and she loved every second of it. Once we started talking on AIM, we realized we had a mutual friend. So we met up, and well 6 months later it ended. She was pretty good looking to. She reminded me of the pornstar Brandy Talore, and that's what attracted me. :cool:

Since then I've grown....

You know the saying there are more fish in the sea? That's true, and MySpace is a pond. Sure there are insanely hot girls with profiles. But a little interaction goes so much further than a flashy page with pictures of girls for social proof. You want the best proof? Meet a girl and make her laugh. Trying to act cool and nonchalant trying to find the best picture of your self, while creating the most unique page trying to attract women while pretending not to attract them with the material in the page is stupid. Friend requests mean jack ****.

I see so many good looking women that don't even get approached. They didn't dress like that to be a ***** and intimidate you. They dressed that way to attract the opposite sex (or in some cases the same sex.) But they will be a ***** if you come off as a loser, creep, weirdo, a phony... whatever. All that time on their hair and outfit wasn't meant for them to be oggled from across the room with your tongue out. Again, they're like that for a reason. For you to make a move on them! Think of it this way... Yes or No. You've got a 50/50 chance with every girl you lay eyes on. Swallow your pride and step up to the plate? Or sit on the bench and watch the game go on without you.

Sorry for the little rant here. But whatever you think MySpace can give you don't rely on it. Hell cancel your account. I guarantee that in the first week you'll have success. I'm not even talking about sex either... a phone # will do. That's going to eliminate all rejection fears. It's like a rollercoaster. Looking at it scares the crap out of you, and you're nervous as hell when you get strapped in then dragged up the lift hill. But once you're down the drop you realize you love it. You feel alive, and you want to ride it again. Same thing.
 

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I like your opener but isn't asking a girl if she wants to meet up a little too much for the opener?
 

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I think internet dating is a waste of time, Myspace is for preteen girls and pervy old men. Go out and meet women in real life. If you meet them on the web, they don't really know if you are you, or a fat gamer with no friends and no life.
 

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Hell.. why not be direct...Women arent STUPID..they know why a random guy is messaging her to begin with...they will look at your profile and if they like what they see 50/50 chance they will respond

Its a numbers game

Most will ignore you and not respond.....
Some will NEVER meet a guy in person off myspace...
Some wont find you attractive or you will not be there type..
Some are just AWs and will respond and give you their number and then flake.
Some will be open to meeting but you have to message them to get rapport and show your not a weirdo....
Some and this what your looking for..will be open to meeting right away!!!!

Example i sent out 30 messages got about 6 or 7 responses...ehh not to bad i guess. But my profile is pretty vanilla NO social proof in any of my pics

This week im gonna work on SUPER-CHARGING my profile with social proof pics and make it all flashy hopefully this should help improve my response rate

And no this isnt gonna be the PRIMARY way i meet chicks..I still need to get my a*s out in the field more and sarge it would pretty lame of me if myspace was the only way i could get laid

But if the goal is to meet chicks and get laid you should be open to every avenue including myspace..believe me i was anti-myspace all the way until i started reading threads on here of people getting laid off there

Expect a HIGH flake rate..even more so than in real life...There is still a stigma of meeting and dating people you met online..Most girls WONT do it...Thats why its a NUMBERS game

Eventually i will cancel and delete my account the goal is to get about 25 to 30 numbers and call it a day..If i could find a couple FBs off there i will be satisfied
 

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MySpace? Reaaaally? The only thing you'll find there are 12 year old girls posing like pornstars. Sorry guys but MySpace just doesn't work well, fake people, increases chances of flaking. And ofcourse you can fall in the facebook/myspace picture trap. Ever seen the profile of a girl and she has this artsy or 'cool' profile pic that just shows one part of her body like an eye? Yeah, shes FUGLY and fat. Go out in the real world and approach, don't try to get girls over teh internets.

In Motion.
 

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One girl I met over myspace invited me to her winter formal, never really liked her though, I was just randomly sending out cut and paste messages to all girls that looked above average.

There was this other girl that I actually was interested in, she was cute. The problem was meeting up with her, she lived like 30 minutes away but I had no way of getting there since no one I know regularly visited the city she lives in. It didn't work out in the end :s
 

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Search for threads by SKIP2MYLOU. He's the Billy Graham of sarging on MySpace.
 

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Ok guys, help me out. I just found the myspace page of a girl I saw at a party a couple of months ago. I didn't talk to her but I felt like I got some good eye contact from her. Should I message her or will that make me look like a stalkerish loser? What should I say? My goodness, I feel like I'm in junior high school again.

P.S. Her profile says she's only looking for friends.
 

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Juan_Man said:
Ok guys, help me out. I just found the myspace page of a girl I saw at a party a couple of months ago. I didn't talk to her but I felt like I got some good eye contact from her. Should I message her or will that make me look like a stalkerish loser? What should I say? My goodness, I feel like I'm in junior high school again.

P.S. Her profile says she's only looking for friends.
What are ya gonna say? " Hey, I remember staring at you at that party last week! "

Sorry, its not going to work, shes probably lying on the looking for friends part, all girls are secretly c0ckcraving h0s. But I wouldnt go for unless you have something REAL to talk to her about. And you should try to quit myspace.
 

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I'll give you an example of how easy it is.

I work at a casino. If see hot girls I'll ask if they're winning. We bull**** for a minute or so then I let them get back to gambling. If they're with a boyfriend, and he gets all upset I'll ask him if he won. You'd be surprised at how many girls come up to me later on (if we cross paths again) and tell me they won, even if it's $10.

Then I lay on the BS. "Do you ladies (sounds better) come here a lot" blah blah blah and I get to know them. Then on my day off I'll meet them here or anywhere else. See? Simple. No magic profile, or send out 5,000 requests and hope for the best.
 

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qstorm501 said:
Blah...Blah...Blahhhh..why is there a naked girl in my bed right now..hmmm...myspace...need I say more?
There's a naked girl in your bed and your posting on a message board? What has this world come to.
 

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