FlexpertHamilton
Master Don Juan
Who cares what they mean, they don't even know what they want.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
"Has goals and is working towards them"
- Thread starter glass half full
- Start date
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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Master Don Juan
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It's very important to have goals. My goal is to bang a woman from every country in the world.
Roober
Master Don Juan
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You guys are complicating a very simple issue
In your 20s, she will accept and ambition and goals as credit
In your 30s, she will accept that you may be a late bloomer as credit
If you are not successful in your 40s, you're just another lazy chump.
In your 20s, she will accept and ambition and goals as credit
In your 30s, she will accept that you may be a late bloomer as credit
If you are not successful in your 40s, you're just another lazy chump.
And it isn't the kiss of death. I was in a career change phase in my 40s work was up and down. Still had plenty of dates and 3 ltrs (which was basically most of the decade). If a girl likes you in you have a little bit of game she will forgive all sorts of deficiencies. It's one of my definitions of a good woman if she can see that you are working hard towards something she hangs around where as the gold diggers and attention hors only care of what bank you are making and status. Of course that is time limited but at least you get given a chance. Remember it's just your turn