No, you're stalking her by asking people where she's been, what she has done and what she has said. You're a very creepy little fellow. And Johnny offered you the link for a reason. READ IT. Then apply it to your own situation. You are being toyed with and although it is amusing, you come here all arrogant about being some broad's SLAVE. You disgust me.Savaris said:
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
**** has been going on for too long... My ex girlfriend
- Thread starter Savaris
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
She knows EXACTLY where to place you. Right in the FRIENDZONE. You will never have anything more with this woman than you have right now. You don't want to hear it, but you should follow the advice that everyone is giving you. Forget about her completely, and move on.Savaris said:
Thatfeel21
Senior Don Juan
Have to agree with the other posters. If youve never banged her, then she was NEVER your girlfriend. Simple and plain.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Point of order
1. If your story takes more than a two paragraphs it's a train wreck and you're chasing. Anytime you have a novella to write it means there way too much going on and the "relationship" and contact should have been ended long ago.
2. Women who are unsure are not interested. A woman says this to string you along for attention or as a break glass in case of emergency option. Don't play long shot odds to win little money.
1. If your story takes more than a two paragraphs it's a train wreck and you're chasing. Anytime you have a novella to write it means there way too much going on and the "relationship" and contact should have been ended long ago.
2. Women who are unsure are not interested. A woman says this to string you along for attention or as a break glass in case of emergency option. Don't play long shot odds to win little money.
If that have been the case she wouldn't have agreed to hold hands in public or kiss me. So I guess she is interested.. Or else you woudn't do something like that with someone you dont think highly off right? Or tell others that i am actually perfect for her, why even bother then? I guess this chick defies logic. She doesnt even understand it herself which makes it even more confusing, o well, ill just do my thing we'll see what happens