"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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**** has been going on for too long... My ex girlfriend

AlexDP

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Savaris said:
Guys again, she did NOT say this to me.. She said it to someone...I just happen to be a pro at finding out things. So why would she say those things to someone with an agenda? That person barely knows me......

Also she admitted that she did not know where to place me... those were here words towards me. That was the main reason I kept trying. She also said "I know your the perfect man for me, but I dont want to start something now when im not over my ex, you mean too much for me for that''

So like, should I in that case keep trying or just be her friend or leave it and dont talk to her and maybe after a long time try again.. so she won't start to see me as a regular friend but someone who she had a romantic relationship with?
No, you're stalking her by asking people where she's been, what she has done and what she has said. You're a very creepy little fellow. And Johnny offered you the link for a reason. READ IT. Then apply it to your own situation. You are being toyed with and although it is amusing, you come here all arrogant about being some broad's SLAVE. You disgust me.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Savaris said:
Guys again, she did NOT say this to me.. She said it to someone...I just happen to be a pro at finding out things. So why would she say those things to someone with an agenda? That person barely knows me......

Also she admitted that she did not know where to place me... those were here words towards me. That was the main reason I kept trying. She also said "I know your the perfect man for me, but I dont want to start something now when im not over my ex, you mean too much for me for that''

So like, should I in that case keep trying or just be her friend or leave it and dont talk to her and maybe after a long time try again.. so she won't start to see me as a regular friend but someone who she had a romantic relationship with?
She knows EXACTLY where to place you. Right in the FRIENDZONE. You will never have anything more with this woman than you have right now. You don't want to hear it, but you should follow the advice that everyone is giving you. Forget about her completely, and move on.
 

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I think you've all been had. I think this is a troll and a parody of an AFC. No one is this clueless/stalkerish.
 

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Have to agree with the other posters. If youve never banged her, then she was NEVER your girlfriend. Simple and plain.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Point of order

1. If your story takes more than a two paragraphs it's a train wreck and you're chasing. Anytime you have a novella to write it means there way too much going on and the "relationship" and contact should have been ended long ago.

2. Women who are unsure are not interested. A woman says this to string you along for attention or as a break glass in case of emergency option. Don't play long shot odds to win little money.
 

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If that have been the case she wouldn't have agreed to hold hands in public or kiss me. So I guess she is interested.. Or else you woudn't do something like that with someone you dont think highly off right? Or tell others that i am actually perfect for her, why even bother then? I guess this chick defies logic. She doesnt even understand it herself which makes it even more confusing, o well, ill just do my thing we'll see what happens
 
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