revolutionnow
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Getting them to your place with the promise of a acting or modeling gig then hooking up with them?
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
The men doing that whether it be Hollywood or Porn have proven positions of power. You can’t successfully fake what you don’t have unless you’re dealing with dumbass women, and who wants those…Getting them to your place with the promise of a acting or modeling gig then hooking up with them?
Were you on another planet during the whole Harvey Weinstein thing?Getting them to your place with the promise of a acting or modeling gig then hooking up with them?
Worked well for Harvey Weinstein...for a while.Getting them to your place with the promise of a acting or modeling gig then hooking up with them?
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Not to mention arrested eventually.Look up some threads by bigneal. That was pretty much his whole angle. He spent $$$$$ on cameras, equipment, and "scouted" girls all while pretending to be a serious photographer.
Worked for him, but kind of creepy as phuck. If anybody who knows you in real life found out, you'd be an outcast.
Was there something illegal about it? He was paying them to take pictures of them, which made them professional models I guess. From what I gathered, he was putting together a portfolio, and even had the thought of possibly making a side career of it. He liked to pick strippers, which made them more likely to tolerate the sexual aspects.Not to mention arrested eventually.
Yes. One, if you get caught with a woman lying about their age (yea, I know, shocking), you're screwed. Just look at Joe Francis. Plus, in some localities, that is illegal. Why do you think porn is now really only filmed in Miami, FL, Nevada or Los Angeles, CA? The reason being is obscenity laws prevent this for commercial and sometimes even private use. You have someone file a complaint that you filmed them nude or having sex w/o their consent (even if they did at the time), you are up sh!ts creek.Was there something illegal about it? He was paying them to take pictures of them, which made them professional models I guess. From what I gathered, he was putting together a portfolio, and even had the thought of possibly making a side career of it. He liked to pick strippers, which made them more likely to tolerate the sexual aspects.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.