"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Has anyone tried to hit on an ex's best friend, long after the breakup?

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Marcopolo

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The reason I ask this is that I was browsing a dating site I just signed up to(I know, some peopel here hate em, but I already paid my dues for this month).Anyway, I came upon a profile on the site of me ex's best friend, apparently she is now single and looking. I always thought she was a hottie but of course I stayed faithful(unlike my ex). At the time she was also in a serious relationship, and I really have no idea what she thought or now thinks of me. I have basically moved out of that whole social circle and live over 50 miles away now, but I still have the hots for her freind. I am curious if any of you have been in a similar situation. What will her friend think of me if I try to hit on her? Will is piss off my ex? (I really don't care if it does, but this woman is crazy) I think on some level maybe that is part of why I am attracted to her, but this woman is objectively an HB9.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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samueladams

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dude go for it! you have no obligations to your ex at all. Now if this was something like YOUR best friends ex-gf...then no you don't touch that. But since its your ex-gf's best friend sure go for it...you owe the ex nothing!
 
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woods

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Go for it. Their friendship is their problem.
 
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sexxyback

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go for it. you probably won't get anywhere, but you can try.
 
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BlackJackal

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A go pimp that ****. Your ex is a liability, and of no consequence.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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