"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Has anyone tried to hit on an ex's best friend, long after the breakup?

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Marcopolo

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The reason I ask this is that I was browsing a dating site I just signed up to(I know, some peopel here hate em, but I already paid my dues for this month).Anyway, I came upon a profile on the site of me ex's best friend, apparently she is now single and looking. I always thought she was a hottie but of course I stayed faithful(unlike my ex). At the time she was also in a serious relationship, and I really have no idea what she thought or now thinks of me. I have basically moved out of that whole social circle and live over 50 miles away now, but I still have the hots for her freind. I am curious if any of you have been in a similar situation. What will her friend think of me if I try to hit on her? Will is piss off my ex? (I really don't care if it does, but this woman is crazy) I think on some level maybe that is part of why I am attracted to her, but this woman is objectively an HB9.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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dude go for it! you have no obligations to your ex at all. Now if this was something like YOUR best friends ex-gf...then no you don't touch that. But since its your ex-gf's best friend sure go for it...you owe the ex nothing!
 
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Go for it. Their friendship is their problem.
 
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go for it. you probably won't get anywhere, but you can try.
 
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A go pimp that ****. Your ex is a liability, and of no consequence.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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