Has anyone run into this?

[Ridingthelightning]

I got this girls number, she always tells me to call, we can keep a good conversation on the phone. I haven't actually seen her in person for about ½ a year.
After each phone call I've given and each internet convo, she always says "Give me a call sometime" and/or "We gotta do something sometime".
Every single time I call, she is going to do something else, or is tired and wants to take a nap.
I really don't know what is going on because she always tells me we gotta go out and do something, but she's never available.
Is she just being nice? I wonder...
What do you all think?
Regardless, life shall go on

 

[Chewy Bagel]

Keep pressing her to go out with you. Make the ho say no.



I've banged a girl who I had to ask out ~10x -- I closed the deal on the first date.

Have you considered making plans a few days in advance?

 

[Slickster]

How are you asking her out when you call?

Next time make sure you be specific.

"Hey I'm going to xyz on ______ day/night to do (something fun) why don't you come along? I'll pick you up at 7:00.

If she is busy and doesn't give the option of getting together on another date/time then its probably a sign of low interest level.

You'll need to work at increasing her interest which isn't necessarily easy on the phone.

good luck.

 

[squirrels]

Not everyone is ready for your level of spontenaity (sp?) before they know you very well. Set something in advance. When you call her up, have a date, time, and activity suggested and choose a day about 3-5 days in advance. See how that works out.

Lots of times, you can't just call a girl up out of the blue and say, "Let's ride!", they have shtuff to do too.