Has anyone here lost their virginity in their 20s?

[revannt]

title????

 

[RoadKing_Rabbit]

Yes. I was 21.

 

[revannt]

Yes. I was 21.

damn, how was it?

 

[Doctor Europeo]

No, I was 15. Why aré you asking though?

 

[revannt]

No, I was 15. Why aré you asking though?

just curious, age is increase for the overall US population, thought it would be interesting. heard people that lose it later are typically more introverted.

 

[revannt]

also, the dating market is so bad right now, its ridiculous. its litreally impossible to find wife material and im in my very very early 20s, scared that ill never find the one. for reference my parents are old and im kind of on a limited timeline when it comes to having kids. considering my lack of experience, i honestly don't know what to do considering this current situation.

 

[RoadKing_Rabbit]

also, the dating market is so bad right now, its ridiculous. its litreally impossible to find wife material and im in my very very early 20s, scared that ill never find the one. for reference my parents are old and im kind of on a limited timeline when it comes to having kids. considering my lack of experience, i honestly don't know what to do considering this current situation.

Stick around here and pay keen attention to certain patterns. Even a complete moron (I doubt you are) won't miss every single subtle hint a woman throws out that she is "DTF RFN!" You'll see opportunities and possibly spot a few on hindsight as you learn more!

About the lady? Yikes. Met her on Xanga. A site you've never heard of. lol She was 27, red hair, green eyes, military groupie. She flew out to Palm Springs from Detroit (Xanga worked WONDERS back in my teens and I had NO IDEA just how much poon I could have slayed! lmao) and when we got to the hotel I lost count of how many times we banged. For like three days straight. It was pretty awesome.

The rest kind of just seemed natural after that. What's odd to me is the number of times I hear about men borderline begging for it in their long term relationships. I've never ASKED for or made a clear statement verbally that I want it. Every single time I've done it, I just advance with kino and either pump up the volume if she's receptive and back off if she isn't. Some guys have little areas of "game" that they're naturally good at. Guess that's mine.

Biggest helpful tidbit that was passed on to me about being in angst or intense angry burning sexual desire was so simple that it sounds stupid. Came from a very charismatic military leader. Not one of those d1ckheads in charge. He was the real deal. That piece of advice was "Don't worry about it." Everyone who had slept with someone nearby kinda laughed and he continued on and said "That ****'s going to happen eventually, ok? It doesn't happen sooner because you fret over it!"

 

[Mike32ct]

28. That was super late back in the day. Today it’s probably no big deal.

My gf then was a 23 yo drug and alcohol counselor. She was super funny. She was like, “The first step is admitting you have a problem (virginity). The next step is seeing someone like me for help.” lol

 

[BaronOfHair]

My oral virginity, yeah... Losing your penile V Card at age 11 to a woman in her 40s, under less than consensual circumstances, can leave a fella with a misgiving or 3 about chowing down on raw, wet kitty again

At least, that was my experience... Props to you fellas who were inducted into the ways of Eros by a real-life Mrs. Robinson, then walked away psychologically unscathed

 

[Lauel]

My oral virginity, yeah... Losing your penile V Card at age 11 to a woman in her 40s, under less than consensual circumstances, can leave a fella with a misgiving or 3 about chowing down on raw, wet kitty again

At least, that was my experience... Props to you fellas who were inducted into the ways of Eros by a real-life Mrs. Robinson, then walked away psychologically unscathed

Me with my broken English humor, and my brain who learned this as a second language is wondering if it should laugh or feel sorry.
But I'll laugh

 

[sangheilios]

28. That was super late back in the day. Today it’s probably no big deal.

My gf then was a 23 yo drug and alcohol counselor. She was super funny. She was like, “The first step is admitting you have a problem (virginity). The next step is seeing someone like me for help.” lol

There are stats showing that there are large numbers of men in America that are still virgins as they approach their 30s. You are correct though, in the 2000s and earlier this would have been incredibly unusual and seen as odd. The difference compared to now is older male virgins are often times relatively normal with regards to looks, behavior, etc. In the past this would have only been seen in men with noticeable deficits in these same parameters.

 

[sangheilios]

My oral virginity, yeah... Losing your penile V Card at age 11 to a woman in her 40s, under less than consensual circumstances, can leave a fella with a misgiving or 3 about chowing down on raw, wet kitty again

At least, that was my experience... Props to you fellas who were inducted into the ways of Eros by a real-life Mrs. Robinson, then walked away psychologically unscathed

That is fing weird, man, wtf. I could see 16 or something kike that but that's crazy if true.

 

[BaronOfHair]

That is fing weird, man, wtf. I could see 16 or something kike that but that's crazy if true.

It is true

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

If you put the same amount of effort into getting laid as you did in creating this post, you'll be a virgin for life.

 

[MatureDJ]