"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Has Anyone Ever Noticed

alkaline hero

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Has anyone ever noticed that HB's 7's and up Are Way more friendly/outgoing and actually give you more of a chance than 6's and under? Even if hb's 7& up are stuck up, you could throw a neg hit and they start laughing whether their interested or not. Girls that are 6's have their pads in too tight. They usually either dont get it, their feelings get hurt or they seemed crushed.
Maybe, its just me but most girls that or interested in me to some degree are usually 7's and up. Their more flirty and fun.

When I try dealing with 6's and under theirs just usually some type of disconnect, harder to create chemistry, its like THEY dont get it.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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kingsam

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yes its a lot of the the 6's and below who often have a lot of pent up bitterness ... as they are uglier so resent to good looking people!

as they dont get approached they are often suspicious of a good looking guys motivations when they are aproached for once...
 

Rollo Tomassi

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They have to be. If the packaging isn't as nice, there has to be some other value added to deal.
 

DavenJuan

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alkaline hero said:
Has anyone ever noticed that HB's 7's and up Are Way more friendly/outgoing and actually give you more of a chance than 6's and under? Even if hb's 7& up are stuck up, you could throw a neg hit and they start laughing whether their interested or not. Girls that are 6's have their pads in too tight. They usually either dont get it, their feelings get hurt or they seemed crushed.Maybe, its just me but most girls that or interested in me to some degree are usually 7's and up. Their more flirty and fun.

When I try dealing with 6's and under theirs just usually some type of disconnect, harder to create chemistry, its like THEY dont get it.
CONFIDENCE

that plays a signifcant part in why you see "6's and under" display a different reaction than what you consider to be "7's and up"

Negging a women who is already self conscious doesnt work as well with a women who is absorbed in constant reminders of her "looks"

by no means do i believe that any women considered to be a 7 or higher ALL confident. Alot of attractive women have many other "confidence" issues that we can discuss for another day, but simply based on looks (considering thats what most "negs" consists of) i think they have the ability to handle them better. women who rarely get complimented in the first place dont have much to hedge the teasing.

IMO
 

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Pair the "6" off of the "7". It will elevate your game. Best step to getting to the "9" which should be your target.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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