"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Has Anyone Ever Noticed

alkaline hero

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Has anyone ever noticed that HB's 7's and up Are Way more friendly/outgoing and actually give you more of a chance than 6's and under? Even if hb's 7& up are stuck up, you could throw a neg hit and they start laughing whether their interested or not. Girls that are 6's have their pads in too tight. They usually either dont get it, their feelings get hurt or they seemed crushed.
Maybe, its just me but most girls that or interested in me to some degree are usually 7's and up. Their more flirty and fun.

When I try dealing with 6's and under theirs just usually some type of disconnect, harder to create chemistry, its like THEY dont get it.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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kingsam

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yes its a lot of the the 6's and below who often have a lot of pent up bitterness ... as they are uglier so resent to good looking people!

as they dont get approached they are often suspicious of a good looking guys motivations when they are aproached for once...
 

Rollo Tomassi

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They have to be. If the packaging isn't as nice, there has to be some other value added to deal.
 

DavenJuan

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alkaline hero said:
Has anyone ever noticed that HB's 7's and up Are Way more friendly/outgoing and actually give you more of a chance than 6's and under? Even if hb's 7& up are stuck up, you could throw a neg hit and they start laughing whether their interested or not. Girls that are 6's have their pads in too tight. They usually either dont get it, their feelings get hurt or they seemed crushed.Maybe, its just me but most girls that or interested in me to some degree are usually 7's and up. Their more flirty and fun.

When I try dealing with 6's and under theirs just usually some type of disconnect, harder to create chemistry, its like THEY dont get it.
CONFIDENCE

that plays a signifcant part in why you see "6's and under" display a different reaction than what you consider to be "7's and up"

Negging a women who is already self conscious doesnt work as well with a women who is absorbed in constant reminders of her "looks"

by no means do i believe that any women considered to be a 7 or higher ALL confident. Alot of attractive women have many other "confidence" issues that we can discuss for another day, but simply based on looks (considering thats what most "negs" consists of) i think they have the ability to handle them better. women who rarely get complimented in the first place dont have much to hedge the teasing.

IMO
 

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Pair the "6" off of the "7". It will elevate your game. Best step to getting to the "9" which should be your target.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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