"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Has anyone ever gotten results through volunteering

Kaim Argonar

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I think I'm about to join one or two of these organizations, I found some that catered specifically to young adults, supposedly the vast majority of the people who apply are female too. Reckoned it'd be a good thing to do to fill up the summer vacations and at least boost my social circle.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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yea this is a good thing, if you have the time do it. But do not do it to meet someone do it because you want to. Have fun and be yourself. Great way to meet people!
 

Kaim Argonar

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I see this recommendation hammered rabidly in most newbie threads but I doubt things are any glamourous. What kind of people go there?
 
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