"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Has anyone ever gotten results through volunteering

Kaim Argonar

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I think I'm about to join one or two of these organizations, I found some that catered specifically to young adults, supposedly the vast majority of the people who apply are female too. Reckoned it'd be a good thing to do to fill up the summer vacations and at least boost my social circle.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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yea this is a good thing, if you have the time do it. But do not do it to meet someone do it because you want to. Have fun and be yourself. Great way to meet people!
 

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I see this recommendation hammered rabidly in most newbie threads but I doubt things are any glamourous. What kind of people go there?
 
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