"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Has anyone else been having issues with the forum?

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Bible_Belt

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You can tell a lot of people are having problems, because there are a lot of double posts. People get impatient waiting and hit the 'reply' button twice.
 

penkitten

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they have been having some site issues in the past few days
 

Eternal_water

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Does this forum keep jamming for anyone else?

I find that this forum keeps jamming and going down a couple of times a day, is this just me or does anyone else have this problem?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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bigneil

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Did SS go NC?

NC really worked. I missed SS and wanted to get back together.
 

ChalengeGuyFan

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Me too.
Let this be a lesson to the non-believers of the methods taught here. :)
 

Groovy

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So-suave AMOG'D the **** out of me with this NC!
 

st_99

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bigneil said:
NC really worked. I missed SS and wanted to get back together.
lol, but after a few minutes i'm back to hatred and resentment.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Packers2010

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what the f happened. i though the site closed down or something.

did they upgrade to better servers or something.

i'm just hoping they got rid of that stupid 10 post a day rule. really annoys me! is there anyway to fix that? i mean. if i have 2 questions i need to ask in separate threads. might take me 3 days to sort both of them out because i have to keep waiting to get more posts.

i know your going to complain about trolls and spamers. just get some mods in here and ban them. not that hard to enforce.
 

Iceberg

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Packers2010 said:
what the f happened. i though the site closed down or something.

did they upgrade to better servers or something.

i'm just hoping they got rid of that stupid 10 post a day rule. really annoys me! is there anyway to fix that? i mean. if i have 2 questions i need to ask in separate threads. might take me 3 days to sort both of them out because i have to keep waiting to get more posts.

i know your going to complain about trolls and spamers. just get some mods in here and ban them. not that hard to enforce.

10 posts per day is perfect.

If you can't say what you need to say in 10 posts or less, you're either asking too many stupid questions or just an attention wh0re.

I wish more message boards had a post-per-day limit.
 

Mindgamez

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Guys, go check this thread on this forum...
It's actually a community to hate on PUAs and people. It is terrible.
http://puahate.com/showthread.php?t=25145

Anyway. I suggest everyone of you guys that have a journal to save it somewhere on your computer so it's safe. **** like this might happen again and they might delete everything for real. I don't know. Let's hope this forum stays safe from future hackers!
 

Konada

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My hamster was spinning non-stop for 1 week. Omg when is SS gonna come back?? Then I realised it was back and I put it back on the backburner.
 

exile663dfx

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Thought SS dumped me... thought to myself "that ****ing sIut!"! but SS came back.. I'm such a man :cheer: :cheer: :cheer:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Love's Orphan

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I thought SS didnt enjoy our 1st date... Way to increase my IL.
 

Fly By Night

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SS's NC tactics had me craving for more attention! >.<

Happy this place is back up, I don't know why everyone thinks that this site is purely about sleeping with women. (at least not purely)
 
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