"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Has anyone else been having issues with the forum?

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Bible_Belt

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You can tell a lot of people are having problems, because there are a lot of double posts. People get impatient waiting and hit the 'reply' button twice.
 

penkitten

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they have been having some site issues in the past few days
 

Eternal_water

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Does this forum keep jamming for anyone else?

I find that this forum keeps jamming and going down a couple of times a day, is this just me or does anyone else have this problem?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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bigneil

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Did SS go NC?

NC really worked. I missed SS and wanted to get back together.
 

ChalengeGuyFan

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Me too.
Let this be a lesson to the non-believers of the methods taught here. :)
 

Groovy

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So-suave AMOG'D the **** out of me with this NC!
 

st_99

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bigneil said:
NC really worked. I missed SS and wanted to get back together.
lol, but after a few minutes i'm back to hatred and resentment.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Packers2010

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what the f happened. i though the site closed down or something.

did they upgrade to better servers or something.

i'm just hoping they got rid of that stupid 10 post a day rule. really annoys me! is there anyway to fix that? i mean. if i have 2 questions i need to ask in separate threads. might take me 3 days to sort both of them out because i have to keep waiting to get more posts.

i know your going to complain about trolls and spamers. just get some mods in here and ban them. not that hard to enforce.
 

Iceberg

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Packers2010 said:
what the f happened. i though the site closed down or something.

did they upgrade to better servers or something.

i'm just hoping they got rid of that stupid 10 post a day rule. really annoys me! is there anyway to fix that? i mean. if i have 2 questions i need to ask in separate threads. might take me 3 days to sort both of them out because i have to keep waiting to get more posts.

i know your going to complain about trolls and spamers. just get some mods in here and ban them. not that hard to enforce.

10 posts per day is perfect.

If you can't say what you need to say in 10 posts or less, you're either asking too many stupid questions or just an attention wh0re.

I wish more message boards had a post-per-day limit.
 

Mindgamez

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Guys, go check this thread on this forum...
It's actually a community to hate on PUAs and people. It is terrible.
http://puahate.com/showthread.php?t=25145

Anyway. I suggest everyone of you guys that have a journal to save it somewhere on your computer so it's safe. **** like this might happen again and they might delete everything for real. I don't know. Let's hope this forum stays safe from future hackers!
 

Konada

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My hamster was spinning non-stop for 1 week. Omg when is SS gonna come back?? Then I realised it was back and I put it back on the backburner.
 

exile663dfx

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Thought SS dumped me... thought to myself "that ****ing sIut!"! but SS came back.. I'm such a man :cheer: :cheer: :cheer:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Love's Orphan

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I thought SS didnt enjoy our 1st date... Way to increase my IL.
 

Fly By Night

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SS's NC tactics had me craving for more attention! >.<

Happy this place is back up, I don't know why everyone thinks that this site is purely about sleeping with women. (at least not purely)
 
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