You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
NSA yes fbi hell no maybe even DOJIt's a tough gig and won't land you the same percs like uncle Sam. It's good for someone from a developing country to raise their status but not for an American. Join the FBI or NSA
Great gov jobs and great benefits.
gender qoutas ?where did you get that from?The foreign legion is pretty brutal when it comes to training regimen, if you can't make it in under the US army rules, you'd have the same problem when it comes to them.
The foreign legion has historically been a way for people who were wanted by the law to make a new life for themselves. A lot of guys enlisted under false names, and are allowed to maintain anonymity while serving. Also, the foreign legion expects for the conscript to treat it as his new (and ONLY) family and it will in turn treat him as such. My understanding is that former legionnaires can call a special number if they ever run into trouble, and they will come to his assistance if needed.
And with that said, the french government has been pledging gender quotas for the legion. So... yeah.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I know who guy who did it; he is dead now with bullet that cracked his skull from what I heard.I was denied entering to the military here in the US due to my eyesight have a lot of buddies who joined wanted to know what's your opinion on the French foreign legion
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/europe/969475.stmgender qoutas ?where did you get that from?
I know who guy who did it; he is dead now with bullet that cracked his skull from what I heard.
Pretty much says a lot doesn't it?
The French foreign legion was formed to save the lives of the French, in other words they send your squad out on the considered "impossible missions" where the government don't want to waste their French citizen soldiers on it.
The legionnaires are seen by the French government as a disposable asset, so you are their gun fodder.
If however do make it (the fatality rates are quite high), though the long service period then you can forget everything about your old life, family, friends etc. as you are given a new name and identity and you become a French citizen and cannot go back to your old life.
And like some other guys here mentioned the training is crazy hard and it is mandatory you that you learn French too.
If you're up for these terms, then sure go ahead.
Otherwise I would recommend to do something more productive with your life as there is high chance you end up dead.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Yep... Just look on your debtclock:but the price to pay is quite high
I'm not american, not that it makes any difference since I'm done paying taxes to any authority.Yep... Just look on your debtclock:
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You're guys are scre'wed for life.
This can never be repaid. US is officially the poorest country in the world by now.
And yet you keep pouring trillions of dollars of new freshly printed into things you cannot afford including expensive wars. Its crazy man.
Na I'm in Sweden atm.I'm not american, not that it makes any difference since I'm done paying taxes to any authority.
I kid you not at my age fking she system is a better high than fking an hb8.
Btw I see you're from denmark, when you pay in taxes more than half of your salary, do you at least get free arab lessons to better prepare you for the future?
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Yes, joining the Ukrainian Foreign Legion has the benefits of HeroMaxxing to impress Ukrainian babes (who beat out French babes).It may be useful to learn military skills but the price to pay is quite high and I'm not talking about the risks but the discipline and freedom limitation for few years.
A better option would be to join the eastern front with any of the two sides.
Any country that is self-sufficient in resources - i.e., if it needed to - can have as much debt as it wants. Let's say the Chinese start balking at its multi-trillion dollar investment in the debt, and decides to let its currency adjust to make the dollar go down - at some point, American labor becomes competitive again, and the blue-collar guy gets work again. Or let's say OPEC & Russia want to put the squeeze on energy - OK, the American fracking industry could get going, especially if the government decides to subsidize it.Yep... Just look on your debtclock:
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You're guys are scre'wed for life.
This can never be repaid. US is officially the poorest country in the world by now.
And yet you keep pouring trillions of dollars of new freshly printed into things you cannot afford including expensive wars. Its crazy man.
With fiat currencies none of this matters truly. And oil is pegged to the dollar, eventually we’ll just add a 0 to the end of the spreadsheet.
You guys are in for a rude nasty awakening sooner or later,(Just like many other fellow Americans). It sort of sad, but it is what it is. As the economics is now, I'm betting on sooner. Could be months or years but highly unlikely a decade. Plant a garden and prepare yourself/your family or not. That's your prerogative and your choice to make.Any country that is self-sufficient in resources - i.e., if it needed to - can have as much debt as it wants.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.