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Has anyone been rejected as brutally as this?

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I honestly don’t think he was hitting on her at all. It looks like he was asking a question, perhaps “hey is this your last set?” and wanted to use those dumbbells. I mean let’s be honest, even the most un-self aware guy isn’t going to approach DURING a girls set. They’ll wait til she’s finished or something.
I've been in training in gyms for over 20 years, so been 'exposed' to a lot of people in that time.

Hasn't happened for years, but I've had a couple of idiots try starting a conversation/asking a question when near the end of a heavy work set. Can recall the Surge of anger that went through me at the time. Probably helped me push out an extra rep or 2, so probably should have thanked them afterwards :D
 

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reading comments about the incident on other sites, a few people criticizing the woman (and women in general) for wearing those clothes like that around and getting 'unwanted' attention., along with many defending her, saying its what they have to wear when working out as most almost a necessity in gym environments when working hard.

fair enough you don;t want/expect that kind of weird stuff with that chap, but what a load of b0ll0cks. Yeah men wear vests, but you don;t HAVE to wear tops hiding your breasts and not much else, or skin tight bottoms. not that I'm complaining but funny how they make out out they wear those clothes out of some kind of necessity. obvious response is men get by ok in gyms without wearing lycra tops that don't cover their midrift/torso.
 

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reading comments about the incident on other sites, a few people criticizing the woman (and women in general) for wearing those clothes like that around and getting 'unwanted' attention., along with many defending her, saying its what they have to wear when working out as most almost a necessity in gym environments when working hard.

fair enough you don;t want/expect that kind of weird stuff with that chap, but what a load of b0ll0cks. Yeah men wear vests, but you don;t HAVE to wear tops hiding your breasts and not much else, or skin tight bottoms. not that I'm complaining but funny how they make out out they wear those clothes out of some kind of necessity. obvious response is men get by ok in gyms without wearing lycra tops that don't cover their midrift/torso.
There is nothing that women like more - literally NOTHING - than complaining about how much attention they are getting. I mean, they intentionally wear low cut shirts and push up bras so that they could complain about men staring at their breasts. It's juvenile behaviour, not much different from kids intentionally misbehaving to get their parents' attention.
 

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It seems a bit odd that she just happened to be recording herself.

Unless that same dude kept bothering her and she wanted video evidence.

But it does seem to be a kind of forced "go viral on tiktok" flex.
She's a "Tik tokker" so it's her job (?) to film herself, photograph herself, promote herself etc.

This didn't look staged. Anyone who films themselves exercising for social media is too stupid to script a pretty genuine reaction like that, on his and her part. They would have performed a much more dramatic, entertaining encounter.
 

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That makes a lot more sense. +1 for putting that into better context.
95% of what MatureDJ posts is a video he found while scouring incel websites, presented out of context to make women appear cruel and/or attracting them a hopeless endeavor, summarized with "it's OVER for [xyz]cels!"

A quick Google search of the video he's posted provides the necessary context and it's almost never as bad as it's been presented.
 

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She’s got a cash app link on her Instagram bio. We all know how those types of women are…..
 

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And women f*cking wonder "Where all the good men have gone."
This. It is both good and bad though.

Bad:
- More and more men will get the "you aren't allowed to approach women - it's toxic masculinity" drilled into their blue pill minds
- More women will get frustrated at the lack of men THEY consider attractive approaching them

Good:
- Makes it 10x easier for guys like us to get women because we are in an even more exclusive club. Plus, we could care less on the EXTREMELY rare chance that a real girl in real life brutally rejects us and we will just laugh it off because we know she has problems and is only working against her best interest by doing that.
 

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reading comments about the incident on other sites, a few people criticizing the woman (and women in general) for wearing those clothes like that around and getting 'unwanted' attention., along with many defending her, saying its what they have to wear when working out as most almost a necessity in gym environments when working hard.

fair enough you don;t want/expect that kind of weird stuff with that chap, but what a load of b0ll0cks. Yeah men wear vests, but you don;t HAVE to wear tops hiding your breasts and not much else, or skin tight bottoms. not that I'm complaining but funny how they make out out they wear those clothes out of some kind of necessity. obvious response is men get by ok in gyms without wearing lycra tops that don't cover their midrift/torso.
You make it sound like "the way she was dressed, she was asking for it". :rolleyes:
 

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95% of what MatureDJ posts is a video he found while scouring incel websites, presented out of context to make women appear cruel and/or attracting them a hopeless endeavor, summarized with "it's OVER for [xyz]cels!"
It's probably closer to 10%. Just because it is posted there doesn't make it de facto irrelevant. :rolleyes: I think folks here that deride content from there are just scared that they are just long dry spell away from being them. I know that if it weren't for GeoMaxxing, I would be in their shoes, since at my height, it would really be OVER. :mad: Maybe folks here want the equivalent of "face control" for its members - i.e., that only Chadlites & above are welcome here because they can be successful?

Psychologists have a word for this that I can't think of at the moment - i.e., that folks who hate some aspect of themselves will show a lot of hate toward those that have more of that hated aspect; it's why folks who get mad at the welfare class the most are perilously close to falling into it, or why the folks that are the most racist toward black folks are the mixed-race folks, etc.
 

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It's probably closer to 10%. Just because it is posted there doesn't make it de facto irrelevant. :rolleyes: I think folks here that deride content from there are just scared that they are just long dry spell away from being them. I know that if it weren't for GeoMaxxing, I would be in their shoes, since at my height, it would really be OVER. :mad: Maybe folks here want the equivalent of "face control" for its members - i.e., that only Chadlites & above are welcome here because they can be successful?

Psychologists have a word for this that I can't think of at the moment - i.e., that folks who hate some aspect of themselves will show a lot of hate toward those that have more of that hated aspect; it's why folks who get mad at the welfare class the most are perilously close to falling into it, or why the folks that are the most racist toward black folks are the mixed-race folks, etc.
You’ve posted pretty toxic, disturbing videos about short men before, concluded that’s it’s OVER for shortcels or something like that — how tall are you?
 

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JFC, the guy may have just been asking if she was almost done with the weights.

And women f*cking wonder "Where all the good men have gone."

Unbeknownst to her, the Asian guy is actually a tech entrepreneur who just sold his startup to Google for $500M. Haha
Beta bux are a dime a dozen, Asian no less.
 

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Looks like we were all too quick to judge her
Modern women are all deserving of prejudice until proven innocent and low notch count.
 

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You make it sound like "the way she was dressed, she was asking for it". :rolleyes:
Not the first time you misunderstood a post I've made the past few days. I'll try to make it clearer in future. :D
 

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Over because of one example? The woman is obviously spoiled and delusional, but the guy's approach was not that great either.
She obviously made whole thing/situation so she could make this ticktock for attention and views. In other words this is not displaying IRL reality as all gyms. :rolleyes:
She's just another women attention wh0re so this clip doesn't tell jack.
 

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You’ve posted pretty toxic, disturbing videos about short men before, concluded that’s it’s OVER for shortcels or something like that — how tall are you?
it is much easier to blame factors that you can not control till a point ( like how your face is , and stuff like thst ) , than to look for reasons within .

i am talking from experience that at some point I was not that happy about my life , and started blaming it on my job , or where I live and stuff like that .

at some point I took the decision to take some time off so I have more time to enjoy what I was missing .

the realization was that whatever I felt about my life was 90% because of me , and maybe 10% of work , city , etc

This was a tough pill that I had swallow , to realize that I was mainly the main protagonist of why I was not happy .

same thing with this guy , if fat women let him hump them it means that he is not ugly . Attraction works the same for models and trolls . Just that for the high tier women unless you are super good looking and their type , you have to add other things in order to sleep with them ( high social status , money , amazing social circle , etc )

if a Lamborghini could be bought by anyone , it would not turn Heads on the street . Would be viewed as you see a Renault or a Dacia , or any other low cost brand
 

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She obviously made whole thing/situation so she could make this ticktock for attention and views. In other words this is not displaying IRL reality as all gyms. :rolleyes:
She's just another women attention wh0re so this clip doesn't tell jack.
never really saw something like this … sure you might be unlucky at some point to happen to you or to see it happening to another guy , but mainly this will happen because she is either in a super bad emotional state , either because she is crazy

but women as a rule are adverse of conflict , so they will never do something that could generate a physical conflict
 

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It's probably closer to 10%. Just because it is posted there doesn't make it de facto irrelevant. :rolleyes: I think folks here that deride content from there are just scared that they are just long dry spell away from being them. I know that if it weren't for GeoMaxxing, I would be in their shoes, since at my height, it would really be OVER. :mad: Maybe folks here want the equivalent of "face control" for its members - i.e., that only Chadlites & above are welcome here because they can be successful?

Psychologists have a word for this that I can't think of at the moment - i.e., that folks who hate some aspect of themselves will show a lot of hate toward those that have more of that hated aspect; it's why folks who get mad at the welfare class the most are perilously close to falling into it, or why the folks that are the most racist toward black folks are the mixed-race folks, etc.
Mixed race folks such as myself are treated black if the skin tone is dark enough or make a voluntary discloure about being black if we could pass for white or be confused with another ethnicity. Why on earth would you really think mixed race are antiblack racists? Do you even know any mixed race people beside myself? Do I not connect with the plight of the black man in finding it hard to get Asian pvssy? Look at escort ads to see if it says "no blacks: then hate fap the escort pic? How dare you say something like that.
 

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Mixed race folks such as myself are treated black if the skin tone is dark enough or make a voluntary discloure about being black if we could pass for white or be confused with another ethnicity. Why on earth would you really think that? Do you even know any mixed race people beside myself? Do I not connect with the plight of the black man in finding it hard to get Asian pvssy? Look at escort ads to see if it says "no blacks: then hate fap the escort pic? How dare you say something like that.
they do not want blacks because usually blacks are ghetto and cause problems .

in Europe , Romanians or morrocans are treated the same . Because they are known trouble makers . But the thing with this guys is thst they are difficult to be spotted as they look the same as the other Europeans .

was with a Romanian friend in Vienna and he wanted to call an escort . Because he had a Romanian phone number , no girl ever responded

gave him my phone with the Spanish number , almost instant replies from the same girls

it is not about color , but about what it is perceived it represents .

people in Latin America have no problem with blacks for example . And in Asia if you go , with your Canadian accent will like you
 
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