You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Yup, like I said, I really think the zinc helped with my acne.BluEyes said:I had acne. It cleared up. Not sure whether I grew out of it, got rid of it, or both...Here's what I did, and boy did I spend alot of time thinking about it...
1. Watch what you eat - generally bad food/greasy food affects acne.
2. Exercise - if you exercise/sweat, you tend to cleans the pores more often.
3. Take a multivitamin - this provides your body with the weapons it needs to fight the acne.
4. Take Zinc pills - zinc reduces the production of sebum, which leads to acne.
5. DON'T touch your face - seriously, this does NOT help in the short run or long run.
Incase you don't see the trend, get healthy, and take zinc.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
50mg a day is enough.dadmonson said:How much zinc would I need to take?
Do a search. There was just a thread about zinc not too long ago.adpreston1988 said:Is there anyway to get the 50 mg of zinc to help w/ acne without taking zinc pills? Like are there any natural foods I can eat a lot of that contain tons of zinc?