"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Has anybody ever actually out grew acne before?

dadmonson

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I kno u can use medication to clear up acne but yo has anybody here ever outgrew it? How long did it take? And at what age did it clear up? I'm 17 and had it since I was like 14 or 13.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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38 and still get spots. Roaccutane cured the worst, I recommend it.
 

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i started gettin it when i was abt 13-14

im 21 next month and i no longer have it, i've out grew it

i used to take medication for it when I as about 16 it helped but i could never be assed to go back to the doctors to get more tablets when the month was up

I just watched what I ate...i.e greasy foods (pizza, burgers etc) and exercised regulary and it cleared up for me
 

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Yo onyx when did u notice it starting to lessen up^^^^^

I watch what I eat and stuff and run track in the summer, and spring and Indoor track in the winter.
 

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Diet and excercise might help a little, but it won't make you clear. I think onyx grew out of it. I used to have a buncha zits when I was 12-13... It lessened and now it's a whole lot less. 1 zit every once in a while. Just be patient, wash your face with something that will help eliminate the oil and use some bonzoyl peroxide 5% (Neutragena on the spot treatment) Most people grow out of acne. A lot of people outgrow it when they turn 18. Some live with it all their life.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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dadmonson

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Yeah, I'm hopin I won't. Neither of my parents have acne scars, if thats any indication.
 

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When i was in middle school, and even as early as 5th grade, I had acne like a mother f*cker. Any given day i had about 10-15 good sized pimples, on one side of my face. After 8th grade, I got sick of it. Took accutane. By the time my freshma year started, after taking accutane sparingly, and not really according to "plan", my acne had improved BIG time. I still had it pretty bad on my back, but not so bad on my face. This summer I started another treatment (17 now) and my back is clearing up like magic. My face, has one or two noticeable ones here and there, but nothing too bad.


Techincally I'm not "outgrowing it", but I am getting rid of it.
 

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Take lots of vitamins (+ zinc) and drink lots of water. Shower sweat off as soon as possible (that could be a huge factor. Use salycilic-acid body wash once or twice a day, and cake benzoyl-peroxide (like clearasil) at night on spots that show up. I tried TONS of stuff including prescriptions for years, and that's what finally did it. Stopped drinking milk helped too.
 

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My dad had it until his late 20s/early 30s. It gradually went away, though not all at once. I seem to of inherited that gene, but I'm trying to break the cycle now with a laser procedure and I think I'm seeing some results.

17 is a normal age to have acne. You don't even get to complain about it until you're at least 20 :p
 

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I started to really get acne when I was in 9th grade, and 14. Then I went to a dermatologist and controlled it for 2 years. Now I'm 16, and every now and then I might get a zit. Other than that dude, drink water, have your vitamins, and get a soft cloth to wipe off your oils twice a day. If it's worse than that, there's a whole regimen on

http://www.acne.org/


If it's worse than mild, go see a dermatologist, because it could scar you for life.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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When I had acne at my worst it was like a huge thick rash on my cheeks except it wasnt a rash but loads and loads of spots, like them big thick bumps...i noticed it cleared up if i watched wot i ate..but yeh i dunno if that will work for every one. Also wash ur face quite often as well.
 

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I was going to post this a few replies ago, but since the trend continues:

Watch what you eat. Even starving people don't have acne, and there's a reason why. Could be milk, could be chocolate, could be anything. Figure it out.
 

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I had acne. It cleared up. Not sure whether I grew out of it, got rid of it, or both...Here's what I did, and boy did I spend alot of time thinking about it...

1. Watch what you eat - generally bad food/greasy food affects acne.

2. Exercise - if you exercise/sweat, you tend to cleans the pores more often.

3. Take a multivitamin - this provides your body with the weapons it needs to fight the acne.

4. Take Zinc pills - zinc reduces the production of sebum, which leads to acne.

5. DON'T touch your face - seriously, this does NOT help in the short run or long run.

Incase you don't see the trend, get healthy, and take zinc.
 

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BluEyes said:
I had acne. It cleared up. Not sure whether I grew out of it, got rid of it, or both...Here's what I did, and boy did I spend alot of time thinking about it...

1. Watch what you eat - generally bad food/greasy food affects acne.

2. Exercise - if you exercise/sweat, you tend to cleans the pores more often.

3. Take a multivitamin - this provides your body with the weapons it needs to fight the acne.

4. Take Zinc pills - zinc reduces the production of sebum, which leads to acne.

5. DON'T touch your face - seriously, this does NOT help in the short run or long run.

Incase you don't see the trend, get healthy, and take zinc.
Yup, like I said, I really think the zinc helped with my acne.

Imagine, a world without zinc! http://www.livejournal.com/userpic/33631685/3802397
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Is there anyway to get the 50 mg of zinc to help w/ acne without taking zinc pills? Like are there any natural foods I can eat a lot of that contain tons of zinc?
 

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adpreston1988 said:
Is there anyway to get the 50 mg of zinc to help w/ acne without taking zinc pills? Like are there any natural foods I can eat a lot of that contain tons of zinc?
Do a search. There was just a thread about zinc not too long ago.

Or you could take 5 minutes and look on google...
 
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