"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Has a bf, show IOIs and doesn't say sh!t bout BF

ElCubanito13

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'ight is your boy Cuban here and today I am asking all ya experienced DJs about a situation that I am in. Alright lets get to it.. So the girl I talked about in my other post ( http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=166457 ) has a BF...I heard because of a mutual friend...Thing is she shows IOIs and hasn't told me sht 'bout her BF... So I'm asking what you DJs think of this situation and what you think I should do..
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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base2ball2boy2

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Think. Simple solution here.

Cal her up, arrange a date or whatever. Ask her: "Do you have a boyfriend?"

If yes, move onto another girl. I don't steal girls from other guys, it's just dishonorable. And if she is willing to leave her old boyfriend for you, then that should say something about her personality.

If no, problem solved anyway.

And if she lies to you, then you have an excuse- the truth. She lied to you.
 

eaglez1177

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^I disagree, as long as its not a friend of yours, then imo theres no problem in "stealing" (if you wanna call it that) a girl from another guy. Thats just life, and it happens all the time.

If this chick is giving you IOI's, fvckin do something about it and escalate. If she begins showing a lot of resistance (mayb cuz of that "boyfriend") then just fvck it and move on. Theres millions of other girls out there.
 

jeffthechef

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Get her number, if you dont already have it. Call her. Set something up.

She says no= Game over.

She says yes= continue this path until she either breaks up with her bf or you find someone better.

As for stealing, I'm sort of inbetween. I don't think you should steal. But i'm not sure what i think you should do is even stealing. You should go out this weekend. Kino. Have fun. Esclate the kino untilll She stops you. This level will give you a good idea of where you are.
 
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