"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Has a bf, show IOIs and doesn't say sh!t bout BF

ElCubanito13

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'ight is your boy Cuban here and today I am asking all ya experienced DJs about a situation that I am in. Alright lets get to it.. So the girl I talked about in my other post ( http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=166457 ) has a BF...I heard because of a mutual friend...Thing is she shows IOIs and hasn't told me sht 'bout her BF... So I'm asking what you DJs think of this situation and what you think I should do..
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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base2ball2boy2

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Think. Simple solution here.

Cal her up, arrange a date or whatever. Ask her: "Do you have a boyfriend?"

If yes, move onto another girl. I don't steal girls from other guys, it's just dishonorable. And if she is willing to leave her old boyfriend for you, then that should say something about her personality.

If no, problem solved anyway.

And if she lies to you, then you have an excuse- the truth. She lied to you.
 

eaglez1177

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^I disagree, as long as its not a friend of yours, then imo theres no problem in "stealing" (if you wanna call it that) a girl from another guy. Thats just life, and it happens all the time.

If this chick is giving you IOI's, fvckin do something about it and escalate. If she begins showing a lot of resistance (mayb cuz of that "boyfriend") then just fvck it and move on. Theres millions of other girls out there.
 

jeffthechef

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Get her number, if you dont already have it. Call her. Set something up.

She says no= Game over.

She says yes= continue this path until she either breaks up with her bf or you find someone better.

As for stealing, I'm sort of inbetween. I don't think you should steal. But i'm not sure what i think you should do is even stealing. You should go out this weekend. Kino. Have fun. Esclate the kino untilll She stops you. This level will give you a good idea of where you are.
 
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