Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Has a bf, show IOIs and doesn't say sh!t bout BF

ElCubanito13

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'ight is your boy Cuban here and today I am asking all ya experienced DJs about a situation that I am in. Alright lets get to it.. So the girl I talked about in my other post ( http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=166457 ) has a BF...I heard because of a mutual friend...Thing is she shows IOIs and hasn't told me sht 'bout her BF... So I'm asking what you DJs think of this situation and what you think I should do..
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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base2ball2boy2

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Think. Simple solution here.

Cal her up, arrange a date or whatever. Ask her: "Do you have a boyfriend?"

If yes, move onto another girl. I don't steal girls from other guys, it's just dishonorable. And if she is willing to leave her old boyfriend for you, then that should say something about her personality.

If no, problem solved anyway.

And if she lies to you, then you have an excuse- the truth. She lied to you.
 

eaglez1177

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^I disagree, as long as its not a friend of yours, then imo theres no problem in "stealing" (if you wanna call it that) a girl from another guy. Thats just life, and it happens all the time.

If this chick is giving you IOI's, fvckin do something about it and escalate. If she begins showing a lot of resistance (mayb cuz of that "boyfriend") then just fvck it and move on. Theres millions of other girls out there.
 

jeffthechef

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Get her number, if you dont already have it. Call her. Set something up.

She says no= Game over.

She says yes= continue this path until she either breaks up with her bf or you find someone better.

As for stealing, I'm sort of inbetween. I don't think you should steal. But i'm not sure what i think you should do is even stealing. You should go out this weekend. Kino. Have fun. Esclate the kino untilll She stops you. This level will give you a good idea of where you are.
 
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