Harry Wilmington, Online Dating Expert, Answers YOUR Questions

[Harry Wilmington]

8. What's your take on photoshopping money and or muscles onto your picture? After all, your personality and attitude doesn't make you any better looking.

LoL, well it helped Master P and Cash Money sell all those records back in the day with those whack album covers, so it might work?

Seriously, though - I've had a few girl friends of mine date dudes off the site that weren't the best looking, but their confidence and "swag" got them to the first date. You can look like muscle-guy money man on your pic, but women actually DO read profiles, and if the guy sounds like a downer they usually won't get the date.

(Responding to the part where I said I dated nurses, lawyers, scientist, etc.)
Right. Because well-educated women flock to POF & OKC. Judging by the HORRENDOUS grammar and spelling on most profiles, the majority of them did some ****ty & meaningless program, if they did any post secondary education at all... The greatest accomplishment I have seen women brag about online is traveling. It seems that 90% of women online are obsessed beyond belief with traveling.

I'm just speaking from my experience. These are the types of women I've managed to date online. Now, what I WILL say is, the majority of these girls are online 'cause they're busy, which means they don't have time to go out regularly and find a man they like.

If you run across women who say this, though, BE AWARE OF THE FACT THAT SHE WILL STILL BE JUST AS BUSY WHEN SHE'S DATING YOU. For example, the lawyer chick I dated had to deal with traveling, late hours at work, papers, etc. which left her little energy and time to actually go out. If you're looking for a chick that will be more readily available, find one that just has a decent 9 to 5 job or is in school (but still has her own place - if they still live at home, it's not even worth it unless you don't mind constantly banging at your place. Not necessarily a BAD thing....)

And yes, I have noticed the majority of women say they've traveled a lot. I think they think it makes them look impressive. I don't care where she's been, as long as she's going to let ME be in HER at some point

 

[Harry Wilmington]

Update: I'm putting the finishing touches on my dating eBook for men, and am using some of these questions/answers for the book. If you have any more questions you'd like answered, feel free to ask them now!