"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Harridan laments that women over age 50 are invisible to men

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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While it might be true for that particular harridan, it's not true for women 50+ in general.

Women 50+ in general have never been in more demand. There are plenty of stories in recent years about women 50+ going to Match, OurTime, and even swipe apps and having a ridiculous abundance of options. There are 50+ women who have dated in the last 10-15 years who have had more male options than they had in their teens/20s in the pre-internet/early internet eras. Tech methods are great for bailing out older women.

It's common for older women (even as young as 30s/40s women) to barely get acknowledged in real life but have hundreds of men chasing them once they put up their dating app or dating website profile.

Women 50+ can meet plenty of men 50+ even in real life, but they won't be able to match the abundance they'd get from a tech method.
 

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I just found out my therapist was 50, i thought she was mid 40's, i would break her in half, i never have hooked up with a woman her age and it seems exciting to me. when i was 21 i hooked up with an airline attendant that was 10 years older than me, that was a good time.
 
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