"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Harridan laments that women over age 50 are invisible to men
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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Women 50+ in general have never been in more demand. There are plenty of stories in recent years about women 50+ going to Match, OurTime, and even swipe apps and having a ridiculous abundance of options. There are 50+ women who have dated in the last 10-15 years who have had more male options than they had in their teens/20s in the pre-internet/early internet eras. Tech methods are great for bailing out older women.
It's common for older women (even as young as 30s/40s women) to barely get acknowledged in real life but have hundreds of men chasing them once they put up their dating app or dating website profile.
Women 50+ can meet plenty of men 50+ even in real life, but they won't be able to match the abundance they'd get from a tech method.
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