"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Master the art of eye contact. There's this thing I do with my eyes, I use it to emphas-eyes the emotion.

Inhale with your mouth closed & let your eyelids descend a fraction... then exhale & let your lids recede back up & intensify your look, opening your eyes wider at your will... watch your reflection & study how you do this & how it looks. It is very powerful when you are aware of how you look. You should be able to switch this on at key junctures in your conversations. There are other things the eyes can do. A great power is hidden behind them. When you realize this you will see with REAL-EYES what you have been looking at all along.

Look at yourself in the mirror. Clear your mind of thoughts. Now observe your eyes & how they intensify as you maintain a conscious thought behind them. Your eyes are expressive in so many ways. You think those pupils are just dead black voids? They are not. And every nuance of your visage frames those eyes with thousands of potential expressions.

Combined with game, master this look & hold her eye contact at the right times then you're going to have her wanting to jump your bones.

Get this look down & the girl will soon get down on you.

 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Harlequin, you come in here, with all your fancy fonts, and fancy posts, and your all smart and stuff. I'd say, welcome to my team of advice gurus. PM me if you want to learn more.

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harlequin said:
Master the art of eye contact. There's this thing I do with my eyes, I use it to emphas-eyes the emotion.

Inhale with your mouth closed & let your eyelids descend a fraction... then exhale & let your lids recede back up & intensify your look, opening your eyes wider at your will... watch your reflection & study how you do this & how it looks. It is very powerful when you are aware of how you look. You should be able to switch this on at key junctures in your conversations. There are other things the eyes can do. A great power is hidden behind them. When you realize this you will see with REAL-EYES what you have been looking at all along.

Look at yourself in the mirror. Clear your mind of thoughts. Now observe your eyes & how they intensify as you maintain a conscious thought behind them. Your eyes are expressive in so many ways. You think those pupils are just dead black voids? They are not. And every nuance of your visage frames those eyes with thousands of potential expressions.

Combined with game, master this look & hold her eye contact at the right times then you're going to have her wanting to jump your bones.

Get this look down & the girl will soon get down on you.

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This is very powerful. I do something similar with my eyes. With some rapport and timed with the the right languaging and tonality you can send a woman instantly into trance.

When you go deep inside your mine and REAL-EYES you have found what you have been looking for all your life.:)
 
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Eyes are a very powerful tool.

Extremely powerful.

Girls love them, and if you can use yours right, it is a very good tool to use in your arsenal.

Here is something I do as well as what Harlequin mentioned:

When you are sarging a girl or group of girls, picture all of your emotions as if they are not inside of your body, but rather inside of your eyes. You can portray every emotion from your eyes if you know how to use them. When you are staring into the eyes of a girl, picture your eyes being the center of your emotions, and use the emotion that you would use regulary as if you were talking to the girl (such as being confident, or happy) but portray them through the eyes.

I have practiced this for a long time, it takes work, but with practice it is very achievable.
 
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Agreed! The concious usage of your eyes is very powerful.

Great post, the extra suggestions added here just as valuable.
Whacked, I like your idea of saturating the eyes with any chosen emotion.

I would add the analogy of a magic wand, to the coupling of your eyes and concious intention. Between the 2 as 1... everything is possible (at least as far as perception is concerned). And as we all know... in essence, we are perceivers.

So mixed in with your guys techniques... enjoy the remembrance that the eyes can cast any form of magic your mind can concieve. This life being a dream of conciousness... everywhere and everything is inter-connected potential. Cast-Away, and enjoy'
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Very intriguing. I'll have to give this a try out.
 
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This may sound lame. But a few pictures would help me understand.
 
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Use a mirror, and experiment, I assure you, you will find it (after a half hour of looking like zoolander)
 
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