"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Master the art of eye contact. There's this thing I do with my eyes, I use it to emphas-eyes the emotion.

Inhale with your mouth closed & let your eyelids descend a fraction... then exhale & let your lids recede back up & intensify your look, opening your eyes wider at your will... watch your reflection & study how you do this & how it looks. It is very powerful when you are aware of how you look. You should be able to switch this on at key junctures in your conversations. There are other things the eyes can do. A great power is hidden behind them. When you realize this you will see with REAL-EYES what you have been looking at all along.

Look at yourself in the mirror. Clear your mind of thoughts. Now observe your eyes & how they intensify as you maintain a conscious thought behind them. Your eyes are expressive in so many ways. You think those pupils are just dead black voids? They are not. And every nuance of your visage frames those eyes with thousands of potential expressions.

Combined with game, master this look & hold her eye contact at the right times then you're going to have her wanting to jump your bones.

Get this look down & the girl will soon get down on you.

 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Harlequin, you come in here, with all your fancy fonts, and fancy posts, and your all smart and stuff. I'd say, welcome to my team of advice gurus. PM me if you want to learn more.

--Mission
 

CompleteControl

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harlequin said:
Master the art of eye contact. There's this thing I do with my eyes, I use it to emphas-eyes the emotion.

Inhale with your mouth closed & let your eyelids descend a fraction... then exhale & let your lids recede back up & intensify your look, opening your eyes wider at your will... watch your reflection & study how you do this & how it looks. It is very powerful when you are aware of how you look. You should be able to switch this on at key junctures in your conversations. There are other things the eyes can do. A great power is hidden behind them. When you realize this you will see with REAL-EYES what you have been looking at all along.

Look at yourself in the mirror. Clear your mind of thoughts. Now observe your eyes & how they intensify as you maintain a conscious thought behind them. Your eyes are expressive in so many ways. You think those pupils are just dead black voids? They are not. And every nuance of your visage frames those eyes with thousands of potential expressions.

Combined with game, master this look & hold her eye contact at the right times then you're going to have her wanting to jump your bones.

Get this look down & the girl will soon get down on you.

This is very powerful. I do something similar with my eyes. With some rapport and timed with the the right languaging and tonality you can send a woman instantly into trance.

When you go deep inside your mine and REAL-EYES you have found what you have been looking for all your life.:)
 

WhAcKeD!

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Eyes are a very powerful tool.

Extremely powerful.

Girls love them, and if you can use yours right, it is a very good tool to use in your arsenal.

Here is something I do as well as what Harlequin mentioned:

When you are sarging a girl or group of girls, picture all of your emotions as if they are not inside of your body, but rather inside of your eyes. You can portray every emotion from your eyes if you know how to use them. When you are staring into the eyes of a girl, picture your eyes being the center of your emotions, and use the emotion that you would use regulary as if you were talking to the girl (such as being confident, or happy) but portray them through the eyes.

I have practiced this for a long time, it takes work, but with practice it is very achievable.
 

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Agreed! The concious usage of your eyes is very powerful.

Great post, the extra suggestions added here just as valuable.
Whacked, I like your idea of saturating the eyes with any chosen emotion.

I would add the analogy of a magic wand, to the coupling of your eyes and concious intention. Between the 2 as 1... everything is possible (at least as far as perception is concerned). And as we all know... in essence, we are perceivers.

So mixed in with your guys techniques... enjoy the remembrance that the eyes can cast any form of magic your mind can concieve. This life being a dream of conciousness... everywhere and everything is inter-connected potential. Cast-Away, and enjoy'
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Hawke

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Very intriguing. I'll have to give this a try out.
 

Amigu

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This may sound lame. But a few pictures would help me understand.
 

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Use a mirror, and experiment, I assure you, you will find it (after a half hour of looking like zoolander)
 
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