"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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hardening shins and forearms

MuayThai

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Kick!

I've been to thailand and seen some crazy ****.

The best method is to kick a heay bag, Starting off slow and working up to full power, about 100-500 times (Or as much as you can) with one leg then switch. Cover em with a damp cloth to stop swelling. Do this everyday.
or i've heard you can roll cans and cylinder up and down em.

and some liniment works wonders.

But i've seen whipping with chains (light ones) and then covering with cloth then rubbing hard with a stone (could barely whatch, blood and cuts)

Time is the best one thought.

Lots on hard well trained muscle is a good one.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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OK scientific explanation made very simple. Smash your shins enough and you do kill the nerves on the skin surface therefore you won't feel the pain. As for shins ketting harder, that happens because you'll cause what amounts to micro-fractures on the surface of the shin bone itself, and so long as you have enough calcium in your system your body will heal those fractures, essentially forming extra bone. It's a process called 'calcification,' and it works just like the theory behind training a muscle. Overdo it though (ie don't allow enough time to heal) and you'll just end up injuring yourself. What's too much? Not sure, depends on genetics, diet and training regime, even your age.
 

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Yuor shins normally hutr so much when u get hit there because there is no barrier between the periosteum surrounding the bone and the skin. The periosteum holds the cells that ake part (when needed) in bone growth and healing. It is also full of nerves and blood vessels.

Normally a thick layer of muscle protects the periosteum from damage, thats why it doesnt hurt much when u get kicked in the calves.

Its likely that repeated damage to the shin causes scar tissue to form and replace the layers of periosteum that get damaged. Thus the nerves die and arent replaced so you dont feel pain.
 

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Dont tap anything against your shin or hit anything harder than your shin best bet is to kick thai pads and heavy bags.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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