"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Hardcore in-field day game thread

daygameguy

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r0cky said:
DHV opener:
You're basically making it obvious that you're describing yourself:
"Have you seen a guy about 5'10, slender, black hair, x color shirt (then just describe yourself in a ****y way) very good looking, with an enchanting smile, (here she starts to laugh) a witty personality, and great sense of humor?"
HAHA LOVE IT. Nice.. but somehow this c&f thing doesn't work for me... So i'll just stick to the high value Pre-selection type opener. Maybe I'll try your C&F on a practice set.. I'm sure they'll laugh.. but then I have already displayed interest.. so it'll be difficult to be a challenge.. can work on the less "hit on" girls.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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gonnamakeit said:
Good stuff I do basicly only day game a lot of it in the mall which I don't like but I don't have many other places so do you guys have any tips for that I am newer than you guys and have just been practicing doing what you were calling pre openers getting good responses but what do you do after that?
Options:

1. Make fun of her
2. Tell a story about your life (even though you think wtf i dont know her!)
3. As open-ended general questions that open conversation threads - cut each thread - start new thread (builds great rapport)
4. touch your weener (lol jus kidding)
 
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