"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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r0cky said:
DHV opener:
You're basically making it obvious that you're describing yourself:
"Have you seen a guy about 5'10, slender, black hair, x color shirt (then just describe yourself in a ****y way) very good looking, with an enchanting smile, (here she starts to laugh) a witty personality, and great sense of humor?"
HAHA LOVE IT. Nice.. but somehow this c&f thing doesn't work for me... So i'll just stick to the high value Pre-selection type opener. Maybe I'll try your C&F on a practice set.. I'm sure they'll laugh.. but then I have already displayed interest.. so it'll be difficult to be a challenge.. can work on the less "hit on" girls.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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daygameguy

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gonnamakeit said:
Good stuff I do basicly only day game a lot of it in the mall which I don't like but I don't have many other places so do you guys have any tips for that I am newer than you guys and have just been practicing doing what you were calling pre openers getting good responses but what do you do after that?
Options:

1. Make fun of her
2. Tell a story about your life (even though you think wtf i dont know her!)
3. As open-ended general questions that open conversation threads - cut each thread - start new thread (builds great rapport)
4. touch your weener (lol jus kidding)
 
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