"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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DogFashionDisco

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There's this girl that I've been talking to for a while now. At the beginning I could tell that she liked me, but I never got to hang out with her at that time. I finally did later, but I screwed it up (long story, basically I was invited to go to this fair with her and her friends but I had a lot to do that day and showed up really late). Nowadays it's hard to read her interest level. She'll look at me in class and everything, sometimes start the conversation. But then sometimes the conversation'll go sour. I try to initiate kino, most of the time I get a positive response, sometimes it won't be negative, but, I don't know, it's hard to explain. One time I tried to get closer (I didn't try to get a kiss, but like hold her and I got a negative response) I don't really kino this girl much. I can't do it in class, and that's basically the only time I see her. I haven't hugged her in a while. Like I said, it's hard to explain, but I feel like she's attracted, but at the same time distant. She's also said that I could come to places with her. Her birthday was yesterday (which I didn't know), and she said she didn't know if she was gonna have a party, but if she did I was invited. I don't know. How should I deal with a chick that's hard to read? Please don't tell me I'm in the friend zone...
 

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ascalon

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Man , why dont you just try to talk with her? I don't see another solution here.In my opinion the most difficult situations are resolved with the easiest decisions. Ask her directly to go out for a coffee and if she accepts its ok, if not - just walk away. I think you dont have to waste time for this story.
 

KillaCam

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Ask. Her. Out.

Get the date, build that platform, then work off that. Take her out of the regular "see you in class" zone, and into one where it is your sole purpose to step it up with her.

Again, ask her out.
 
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