"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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hard to get or not interested?

JimRustle

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I've never been good at reading women or writing paragraphs, but heres a long story short

this girl opened conversation with me a couple of months ago on facebook, we joked around and i got the number, texted a little for a couple of days and asked when im free, i told her when im free and she didn't reply.

a week later she texted me saying she completely forgot and hopes i can forgive her, i replied and she didnt message back. nexted and forgot about her, month later she sends me her new number and we get talking again, she takes a long time to reply to texts and some can look kind of low interest, but anyway she came over that week.

she showed all kinds of IOI and high interest from the start, watched some tv and movies and progressed until we made out and i got her almost naked(she wouldnt let me further than the panties) had a fun night but since then contact has been rare and time between messages is real long, some she is showing plenty of interest and then some are real plain, last one i sent hasn't got a response yet.

help a beginner figure out this brod
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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You're an option. I suggest you get a few yourself.

If you guys already almost got naked - maybe call her up tell her you had a dirty dream about her and get explicit, it usually turns em on.
 

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TRSX said:
You're an option. I suggest you get a few yourself.

If you guys already almost got naked - maybe call her up tell her you had a dirty dream about her and get explicit, it usually turns em on.
the girls naked and doesn't wanna let me go or leave my house till early morning then turns cold after. You're right though I need to keep myself options, not long came out of a LTR, need to get rid of that frame of mind
 

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the next time she contacts you ignore her. if she contacts you again on the same day or the day after ignore her again.. don't reply for a day or two and say you were busy.. do not apologize, though. see what she wanted. if she says she wants to hang out, you're in 100% because you've made yourself a challenge and she's wondering why you didn't get back at her right away. if she beats around the bush, don't ask her to hag out, say you'll talk to her whenever (this will reaaaallllyyy get her going) and theres an 80-90% chance she'll hit you right back up asking to hang.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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She text saying sorry she hasn't been in touch her phone got cut off and she hopes I can forgive her. Took all of your advice and have a girl coming over on Sunday, will ignore girl 1 till next week
 
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