"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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hard to get or not interested?

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I've never been good at reading women or writing paragraphs, but heres a long story short

this girl opened conversation with me a couple of months ago on facebook, we joked around and i got the number, texted a little for a couple of days and asked when im free, i told her when im free and she didn't reply.

a week later she texted me saying she completely forgot and hopes i can forgive her, i replied and she didnt message back. nexted and forgot about her, month later she sends me her new number and we get talking again, she takes a long time to reply to texts and some can look kind of low interest, but anyway she came over that week.

she showed all kinds of IOI and high interest from the start, watched some tv and movies and progressed until we made out and i got her almost naked(she wouldnt let me further than the panties) had a fun night but since then contact has been rare and time between messages is real long, some she is showing plenty of interest and then some are real plain, last one i sent hasn't got a response yet.

help a beginner figure out this brod
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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You're an option. I suggest you get a few yourself.

If you guys already almost got naked - maybe call her up tell her you had a dirty dream about her and get explicit, it usually turns em on.
 
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TRSX said:
You're an option. I suggest you get a few yourself.

If you guys already almost got naked - maybe call her up tell her you had a dirty dream about her and get explicit, it usually turns em on.
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the girls naked and doesn't wanna let me go or leave my house till early morning then turns cold after. You're right though I need to keep myself options, not long came out of a LTR, need to get rid of that frame of mind
 
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the next time she contacts you ignore her. if she contacts you again on the same day or the day after ignore her again.. don't reply for a day or two and say you were busy.. do not apologize, though. see what she wanted. if she says she wants to hang out, you're in 100% because you've made yourself a challenge and she's wondering why you didn't get back at her right away. if she beats around the bush, don't ask her to hag out, say you'll talk to her whenever (this will reaaaallllyyy get her going) and theres an 80-90% chance she'll hit you right back up asking to hang.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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She text saying sorry she hasn't been in touch her phone got cut off and she hopes I can forgive her. Took all of your advice and have a girl coming over on Sunday, will ignore girl 1 till next week
 
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