A very vulnerable girl was working as a prostitue and I visited her. FIRST and LAST prostitute for me, can't objectify people. Anyway, she was actually a vulnerable, naive and dependent girl who didn't belong there. She was lost because her profession was flat and her friends had moved away. She got caught and I was able to help her by giving her a career and telling her how to handle everything. All innocent, happy to help.
Her friends who caught her then got her a job because they didn't like her working with me because she was vulnerable, she cried and asks for my advice. I told her to go, she owed me nothing. She decided to stay because I was a mentor/Father figure. I am married, 36 and wife and I haven't had sex for 3 years. She is 23.
She recently got a boyfriend but more because she simply isn't good on her own. She described him as not her type, too short, but nice to her, loves his parents and someone she could be friends with if they break up.
She and I share intimate discussions, she sms's me when she knows I am out with the boys. She bakes me cakes and gets me expensive personal presents for my birthday. She is a touchy person, but she touches me alot, leans into me and tickles me and hits me. We have a Thursday special lunch each week and eat together for breakfast and lunch theother days. She says she would leave if I left because she can relate to me. She seemed to get catty when an attractive client came in dressed up, she said "she dressed for the occassion". She theorises that my wife kept her boyfriend until she knew she had me, which is derogatory and personal. But then she will say that she wouldn't want to know about her husbands first love if she was married. When I say, "sorry if I offended" she replies "it's okay, Im talking about if a partner, down the track said it to me" Which makes me wonder if she is saying, YOU AND I are not and never will be partners.
She hints at hiking and playing tennis together. My wife and her firneds think she is after me, but they dont know how we met.
I am bigger, stronger, and richer and more masculine than her boyfriend and she has even said that she thinks I am good looking.
If she wanted me I would be with her tomorrow, if she only wanted a mentor, I could cope with that, its just the signals and the not knowing that is annoying. I do love her and dont want to hurt her. I did tell her I loved her, but that probably was more a paternal thing at the time....not sure, but it didn't freak her out anyway.
Any thoughts anyone?
Her friends who caught her then got her a job because they didn't like her working with me because she was vulnerable, she cried and asks for my advice. I told her to go, she owed me nothing. She decided to stay because I was a mentor/Father figure. I am married, 36 and wife and I haven't had sex for 3 years. She is 23.
She recently got a boyfriend but more because she simply isn't good on her own. She described him as not her type, too short, but nice to her, loves his parents and someone she could be friends with if they break up.
She and I share intimate discussions, she sms's me when she knows I am out with the boys. She bakes me cakes and gets me expensive personal presents for my birthday. She is a touchy person, but she touches me alot, leans into me and tickles me and hits me. We have a Thursday special lunch each week and eat together for breakfast and lunch theother days. She says she would leave if I left because she can relate to me. She seemed to get catty when an attractive client came in dressed up, she said "she dressed for the occassion". She theorises that my wife kept her boyfriend until she knew she had me, which is derogatory and personal. But then she will say that she wouldn't want to know about her husbands first love if she was married. When I say, "sorry if I offended" she replies "it's okay, Im talking about if a partner, down the track said it to me" Which makes me wonder if she is saying, YOU AND I are not and never will be partners.
She hints at hiking and playing tennis together. My wife and her firneds think she is after me, but they dont know how we met.
I am bigger, stronger, and richer and more masculine than her boyfriend and she has even said that she thinks I am good looking.
If she wanted me I would be with her tomorrow, if she only wanted a mentor, I could cope with that, its just the signals and the not knowing that is annoying. I do love her and dont want to hurt her. I did tell her I loved her, but that probably was more a paternal thing at the time....not sure, but it didn't freak her out anyway.
Any thoughts anyone?