"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Hard Choice :d

Pick

  • Nice and Hott

    Votes: 7 46.7%
  • Hott and Smart

    Votes: 5 33.3%
  • Nice and Smart

    Votes: 3 20.0%

  • Total voters
    15
  • Poll closed .

BananaSmile

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Nice - eg not *****y very friendly
Smart - easy to talk to understand WORDS
Hot or beutifull but i ll just put hott
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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SandHawk

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This poll is pointless, because I pick the girls based on all 3 factors. I've had extremely hot girls tell me "they can get anyone they want", and then I'll proceed to tell them "except me" and walk off.
 

kingsam

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the problem with this is its all subjective
hot to one person is average to another
nice is also relative and subjective
smart is relative, my smart is very different to other peoples smart
 

mikeyb

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True enough it's hard to find a girl with all 3.

"Nice" is sometimes deceptive though. Some girls have b*tch shields the size of mt vesuvius but once you break past that they're real mellow. The opposite is sometimes true too.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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BananaSmile

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it wasnt obviosly a serious poll because there were only 3 variables
it just me and my friends were discussing this
me and this other guy picked smart and hot
but everyone else picked nice and hot (cos b&&cH#s be crazy)


and yea CANDY Is a perfect example
 
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