Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Happy Valentines Day Card for Allen (SoSuave.com) and all the Moderators!

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Don Juans feel free to post your sentiments concerning SoSuave's contribution to your life and/or share your love and regards to Allen (Mr. SoSuave himself) and to all the Moderators

One day we shall return to our original states, and men shall be as men, and women shall be women! SoSuave is giving us an avenue to return there!

Thank You Allen [('SoSuave') Can I take this name for myself?] Happy Valentines Day to SoSuave.com and the four years that you have contributed to bringing men to their rightful place as men!

I proclaim ‘Valentines Day’ from hereon, shall be claimed by all Don Juans as ‘SoSuave Day’!

Thanks again for your hard work and contribution, including all the Moderators. From all of us, from the original Don Juans to the recovering AFC's!

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I know we Don Juans fight like children at times, and you and the Mods must act like our father and gods to reprimand us once in a while, but sometimes it is all done in jest and in good spirits. In the end, we all come to SoSuave for our own personal development or out of our concern for the development of our fellow man. It is all for good!!!

Sincerely,

PuertoRican_lover
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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This is the day of Lover's...it is PuertoRican_Lover day and I shall spend it with my bride...SoSuave.com!!

We got married today, for those of you who didn't know!
 
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it's some kind of drug for sure...
 
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Anything Else...Um, thanks for the thing, I think...
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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ummm, that's the thanks I get for opening up my heart to the SoSuave community...I feel like such an 'AFC". :( I shall revert back to my old PuertoRican_Lover self! :cool:

Thanks for showing me the error of my ways!!
 
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Originally posted by PuertoRican_Lover
I proclaim ‘Valentines Day’ from hereon, shall be claimed by all Don Juans as ‘SoSuave Day’!
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Happy SoSuave day...
 
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Puertorican_lover!!!

have you joined the ranks of the evil, god-hating homos?! why are you sending a valentine's day card to men! MEN ON A WEBSITE! clearly the greatest champion of truth has fallen to the forces of hors, homos, and metrosexuals!!!11111four
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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V-day....

HAPPY VALENTINES DAY!!


P.S.:

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Happy SoSuave day...
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I think we should make an official "SoSuave Day" , where we all will make an EXTRA effort to become/be Dopn Juans on that day, and better ourselves. ( I know that we do that every day, but on this day we should do something EXTRA "special" or put some extra "effort" at doing something that would make us all proud;) ... Just an idea :rolleyes:


Laterz...
 
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ya... but...

Originally posted by fuzzx
I agree forever this day shall now become SOSUAVE DAY :)
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I dont think making "SoSuave Day" on the same day as Valentines day would be the best choice.... but ya, i DO think we SHOULD have a day for SoSuave day;)


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Originally posted by A&F Brand Cologne
Puertorican_lover!!!

have you joined the ranks of the evil, god-hating homos?! why are you sending a valentine's day card to men! MEN ON A WEBSITE! clearly the greatest champion of truth has fallen to the forces of hors, homos, and metrosexuals!!!11111four
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You're about a year late. Check the date of his post. ;)
 
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"inhaling a lot of air....nothing short of a....a.... vacuum"
 
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haha PRL you crack me up. I think you did this before.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Happy SoSuave day to all and to all a goodnite?
 
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"Valentines Day" is now and has traditionally been "What is my man going to buy me - it better be something that shows that I'm important to him and it better be something that I want" Day - totally from a woman’s viewpoint and wants!!! The man doesn't matter!!

Well , I say that there are two people involved in a relationship (Say "No" to ho-mos) and the man is "THE" vital ingredient in this natural order of things amongst the sexes. "Sosuave Day" will be a day to wake up the chumps (maybe a family member or a friend) and show him the path to enlightenment and rid him of his brainwashed existence relating to the opposite sex!!

"SoSuave Day" is when we evaluate the woman who we are with (Say "No" to homos) and ask ourselves "What is she doing to satisfy me and is she living up to her natural femininity in complementing me as a man? This is also a day for self-reflection on our part and we should ask ourselves "Am I living to my potential as a man and taking the leadership role in the relationship or am I being the passive one being manipulated and controlled by my mate?

“SoSuave Day” is the day to assert your manhood (Say “No” to homos) and to start dictating the agenda if you haven’t been doing so!!!
 
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