happy turkey day tomorrow!

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

forcerecon01

Master Don Juan

Nov 23, 2022

I want to thank the Don Juans in this forum for your wonderful advice,new insight,and differing prospectives. I have learned a lot and changed a lot. I've met cool people from all over this country and the world on this forum. I am still thankful for my health even at 43 yrs old my knees are okay (not the best) but functional for walking and a little running. I quit smoking over 2 years ago and now my lungs feel a lot better.

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.