"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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happy thanksgiving

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let us all give thanks to god for the abundant harvest that our mother earth has produced again this year. let us pray for the less fortunate who struggle to eat and have no where to lay their heads at night.

instead of wasting time online surfing the web, let's feed our brains by going to feedrice.com. for every correct vocabulary word you get, they donate rice to the hungry.

http://fractalenlightenment.blogspot.com/2007/11/play-game-to-feed-hungry.html
For every word you get correct FreeRice donates 10 grains of rice to the World Food Program run by the United Nations. FeedRice has donated more than one billion grains of rice that would help feed 50,000 people for a day. I managed to donate more than 300 grains of rice until my net went down.

http://www.freerice.com/
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Happy thanksgiving to you too.

I am thankful that there are cool people on this board now.

Peace
 

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Who we really need to thank are the American-Indians... because they are the ones that were slaughtered by the pilgrims and had their land stripped from them so we can eat turkey on this day...thanks so much guys!!
 

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Yeah they are almost extinct. a few more concentration camps to go and they will be on the list
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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At the end of the day if you think of at least one thing you are thankful for it will reprogram your brain for happiness.

Peace
 

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Deus ex Pianoforte said:
What the...oh, never mind. You're from San Francisco. That explains it.
that was a half-joke dude...and whats THAT supposed to mean?
 

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Ah, Thanksgiving. The day where I look at my life and how miserable I think I am. I don't think I've been happy for a single day since the last Thanksgiving. But then I look outwards and remember that there are people who are having truly miserable lives. All I can really say is that I'm thankful for being born and raised in the United States instead of some war torn or famine stricken country.

My life could be much better, and it could be much worse. I have the bare minimums to live a somewhat comfortable life. But is it enough?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Ken785 said:
Maxtro..you are one negative a$s Muhfvcka...go rent The Secret.
I saw it, twice. I'm just down because I basically got rejected yesterday by a girl that became a oneitis and I had an epiphany that made me understand my problems.

But yeah, I haven't been happy on Thanksgiving or Christmas since I was 16 if even then.
 
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