"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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happy thanksgiving

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let us all give thanks to god for the abundant harvest that our mother earth has produced again this year. let us pray for the less fortunate who struggle to eat and have no where to lay their heads at night.

instead of wasting time online surfing the web, let's feed our brains by going to feedrice.com. for every correct vocabulary word you get, they donate rice to the hungry.

http://fractalenlightenment.blogspot.com/2007/11/play-game-to-feed-hungry.html
For every word you get correct FreeRice donates 10 grains of rice to the World Food Program run by the United Nations. FeedRice has donated more than one billion grains of rice that would help feed 50,000 people for a day. I managed to donate more than 300 grains of rice until my net went down.

http://www.freerice.com/
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Happy thanksgiving to you too.

I am thankful that there are cool people on this board now.

Peace
 

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Who we really need to thank are the American-Indians... because they are the ones that were slaughtered by the pilgrims and had their land stripped from them so we can eat turkey on this day...thanks so much guys!!
 

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Yeah they are almost extinct. a few more concentration camps to go and they will be on the list
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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At the end of the day if you think of at least one thing you are thankful for it will reprogram your brain for happiness.

Peace
 

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Deus ex Pianoforte said:
What the...oh, never mind. You're from San Francisco. That explains it.
that was a half-joke dude...and whats THAT supposed to mean?
 

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Ah, Thanksgiving. The day where I look at my life and how miserable I think I am. I don't think I've been happy for a single day since the last Thanksgiving. But then I look outwards and remember that there are people who are having truly miserable lives. All I can really say is that I'm thankful for being born and raised in the United States instead of some war torn or famine stricken country.

My life could be much better, and it could be much worse. I have the bare minimums to live a somewhat comfortable life. But is it enough?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Ken785 said:
Maxtro..you are one negative a$s Muhfvcka...go rent The Secret.
I saw it, twice. I'm just down because I basically got rejected yesterday by a girl that became a oneitis and I had an epiphany that made me understand my problems.

But yeah, I haven't been happy on Thanksgiving or Christmas since I was 16 if even then.
 
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