"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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happy thanksgiving

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let us all give thanks to god for the abundant harvest that our mother earth has produced again this year. let us pray for the less fortunate who struggle to eat and have no where to lay their heads at night.

instead of wasting time online surfing the web, let's feed our brains by going to feedrice.com. for every correct vocabulary word you get, they donate rice to the hungry.

http://fractalenlightenment.blogspot.com/2007/11/play-game-to-feed-hungry.html
For every word you get correct FreeRice donates 10 grains of rice to the World Food Program run by the United Nations. FeedRice has donated more than one billion grains of rice that would help feed 50,000 people for a day. I managed to donate more than 300 grains of rice until my net went down.

http://www.freerice.com/
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Happy thanksgiving to you too.

I am thankful that there are cool people on this board now.

Peace
 

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Who we really need to thank are the American-Indians... because they are the ones that were slaughtered by the pilgrims and had their land stripped from them so we can eat turkey on this day...thanks so much guys!!
 

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Yeah they are almost extinct. a few more concentration camps to go and they will be on the list
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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At the end of the day if you think of at least one thing you are thankful for it will reprogram your brain for happiness.

Peace
 

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Deus ex Pianoforte said:
What the...oh, never mind. You're from San Francisco. That explains it.
that was a half-joke dude...and whats THAT supposed to mean?
 

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Ah, Thanksgiving. The day where I look at my life and how miserable I think I am. I don't think I've been happy for a single day since the last Thanksgiving. But then I look outwards and remember that there are people who are having truly miserable lives. All I can really say is that I'm thankful for being born and raised in the United States instead of some war torn or famine stricken country.

My life could be much better, and it could be much worse. I have the bare minimums to live a somewhat comfortable life. But is it enough?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Ken785 said:
Maxtro..you are one negative a$s Muhfvcka...go rent The Secret.
I saw it, twice. I'm just down because I basically got rejected yesterday by a girl that became a oneitis and I had an epiphany that made me understand my problems.

But yeah, I haven't been happy on Thanksgiving or Christmas since I was 16 if even then.
 
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